God also recently revealed to me that the reason why we should not covet is because everything is supposed to inspire us to pray bigger. My one friend recently departed on an all expenses paid trip to Israel, she sent me the forwarded whatsapp her friend sent her to invite her along to Israel. I said Lord if you did it for you, you will definitely do it for me too. This was a source of inspiration for prayer for me. I have actually had a couple of close encounters to this major bucket list item to visit Israel this year, I see these as preparations. So instead of the men being intimidated by us, switch off the covet or intimidated button in their soul, and switch on the being inspired button instead. 

It recently came under my attention that maybe I’m too independent, I’m 36years old, never been married, so I’m used to making plans on my own. So me and my one friend, shoutout to my cut wisdom decided we need to work on it. As fate would have it, my laptop crashed a couple of days later, I thought this was an excellent situation to be more needy. Needy is a label I have never had in my life. I planted the seeds, with no success, off course my girlfriends, without me even asking came to my rescue, offering a loaned laptop until I buy a new one, another shoutout to my Hero-colleague, my other friend said she will ask her husband for counselling and guidance, another shoutout to my marshmallow friend. But now I’m a little bit confused? So teach me Lord, how to ask for assistance better in the future. I want to be a Ruth, whom Boas assisted. I also know about the Jefferson concept, asking for help might increase the person’s fondness of you.