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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli interviews Reuben Gottlieb, a lawyer and forensic accountant, discussing the complexities of financial health during divorce. They explore the importance of lifestyle analysis, the role of forensic accountants, and the necessity of prenups in modern marriages. Reuben shares insights on navigating financial transparency, the challenges of valuing businesses, and the reality of living beyond means. The conversation emphasizes the need for open communication about finances in relationships and concludes with reflections on trust and personal growth.

Takeaways

• Forensic accountants help in lifestyle analysis during divorce.
• Many couples are unaware of their actual spending habits.
• Prenups are becoming increasingly relevant in modern marriages.
• Financial transparency is crucial for healthy relationships.
• Living beyond means is common, often funded by credit or inheritance.
• Valuing a business during divorce can be complex and challenging.
• Discretionary spending can artificially lower business valuations.
• Communication about finances can prevent future conflicts in marriage.
• Understanding financial health is essential for both partners in a marriage.
• Trust and open conversations about money can strengthen relationships.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, holistic dating coach Amy Nobile Messing shares her personal journey from a tumultuous upbringing to finding love after divorce. She discusses the importance of communication, emotional maturity, and financial wellness in relationships. Amy introduces her four pillars of aligned love, emphasizing the need for intentional dating and self-discovery. The conversation also touches on the stigma surrounding prenups and divorce, advocating for a shift in perspective towards empowerment and open communication in relationships.

• Amy Nobile Messing is a holistic dating coach who emphasizes communication.
• Her personal journey includes a 20-year marriage and a subsequent divorce.
• The importance of understanding what love looks like from childhood experiences.
• Navigating relationships requires emotional maturity and self-awareness.
• The concept of 'choose me' wound in dating can lead to unhealthy patterns.
• Intentional dating involves understanding core values and emotional readiness.
• Financial wellness should be discussed early in relationships.
• Prenups can be empowering and should be viewed positively.
• Divorce should not be seen as a failure but as a part of life.
• Empowering both men and women in relationships is crucial for healthy dynamics.

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In this episode, host Lilli speaks with Ian Steinberg, a matrimonial and family law attorney based in New York City. Ian shares his journey from real estate law to family law, emphasizing the importance of personal connections with clients. The conversation explores the evolving perceptions of prenups, unique clauses that can be included, and common reasons for divorce. Ian also discusses the complexities of second marriages and the significance of building long-term relationships with clients. The episode concludes with insights on the future of prenups and the necessity of financial conversations in relationships.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli interviews Elizabeth Ashford, founder of Beyond the Beez and a certified sex educator. They discuss the importance of sexual education, the dynamics of relationships, and the necessity of prenups in modern partnerships. Elizabeth shares her journey from a passion for sexual wellness to creating educational products aimed at empowering individuals in their sexual lives. The conversation also touches on the challenges of navigating finances in relationships, the realities of divorce, and the importance of open communication about sex and intimacy.

Takeaways

• Sexual education is crucial for empowerment.
• Relationships require ongoing communication and skill development.
• Prenups can protect both partners in a marriage.
• Financial discussions are essential for relationship health.
• Divorce often stems from issues related to sex, money, and children.
• Sexual satisfaction can fluctuate over time.
• Open conversations about sex can enhance intimacy.
• Cultural narratives around sex need to evolve.
• Women should feel empowered to make their own sexual choices.
• Sexual wellness should be integrated into overall wellness routines.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, host Lilli speaks with journalist Josie Cox about her journey from journalism to focusing on gender economics. They discuss the gender pay gap, the challenges of balancing motherhood and career, and the evolving dynamics of parenting. Josie shares her insights on the stigma surrounding prenups and the importance of financial conversations in relationships. The conversation highlights the need for women to take control of their financial futures and the significance of partnership in navigating these challenges.

Takeaways

• Josie Cox emphasizes the importance of storytelling in journalism.
• The gender pay gap remains a significant issue in the economy.
• Motherhood often leads women to take professional steps back.
• Parenting dynamics have evolved, with more hands-on involvement today.
• Prenups are becoming more common as women gain financial independence.
• Women are increasingly seeking freelance and entrepreneurial opportunities.
• Unpaid labor should be recognized as valuable work.
• Open communication about finances is crucial in partnerships.
• Financial trauma can impact discussions about money and prenups.
• The societal conditioning around money and power still affects relationships.

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In this episode of the Prenup podcast, Lilli interviews Logan Gentry, an executive coach and former pastor, who shares his unique journey from engineering to ministry and coaching. They discuss the importance of premarital counseling, the challenges of marriage and divorce, and the dynamics of co-parenting. Logan emphasizes the need for open communication, financial discussions, and the role of therapy in personal growth. He also provides practical advice for maintaining healthy relationships, including regular planning meetings and making memories together.

Takeaways

• Logan Gentry emphasizes the importance of joy and generosity in philanthropy.
• His journey from civil engineering to pastoral leadership highlights the blend of faith and practical application.
• Living in New York City challenged his faith and forced a nuanced understanding of spirituality.
• Premarital counseling should expose gaps in relationships before marriage.
• Financial conversations are crucial in premarital counseling to avoid future conflicts.
• Many couples drift apart after having children due to logistical chaos.
• Therapy can help individuals confront their own issues and improve relationships.
• Co-parenting requires negotiation and communication, similar to running a business.
• Regular planning meetings can help couples stay aligned and connected.
• Creating memories together strengthens family bonds and relationships.

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summaryIn this episode of the Prenup Podcast, Lilli interviews Gianna Biscontini, a lifestyle designer and wellness founder. They discuss Gianna's journey into wellness and psychedelic medicine, her upbringing in rural Pennsylvania, her experiences in college, and her marriage to Will. The conversation delves into the challenges of their marriage, the eventual divorce, and Gianna's reflections on love, life choices, and the importance of self-discovery. They also explore the concept of prenups and postnuptial agreements, emphasizing the need for clarity and safety in relationships.

takeaways

• Gianna emphasizes the importance of being authentic in therapy and wellness.
• Nature has always been a source of comfort and home for Gianna.
• Her journey into wellness was influenced by her experiences in California.
• The significance of mentorship and guidance in personal development.
• Marriage can bring both stability and constraints to personal growth.
• Gianna's divorce was a pivotal moment for her self-discovery.
• She believes in the importance of financial independence for women.
• Prenups can provide clarity and safety in relationships.
• Postnuptial agreements can help couples navigate changes in their relationship.
• Love and compassion are essential in navigating human relationships.

In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, host Lilli interviews Sol Lee, CEO and co-founder of Neptune, a startup focused on helping couples navigate prenups. Sol shares her personal journey, including her childhood experiences with divorce, her career in finance and venture capital, and her transition to entrepreneurship. The conversation delves into the importance of financial independence, the complexities of prenup discussions, and the innovative approach Neptune takes to simplify the prenup process for modern couples. Sol emphasizes the need for open communication in relationships and the value of understanding financial dynamics before marriage.

• Sol Lee is the CEO and co-founder of Neptune, a prenup-focused startup.
• Her childhood experiences with divorce influenced her career choices.
• Financial independence is crucial for women, as emphasized by Sol's mother.
• The prenup process can be complex and emotionally charged.
• Open communication about finances is essential in relationships.
• Neptune aims to simplify the prenup process using technology.
• Couples should explore prenups to understand their financial dynamics better.
• The importance of having separate legal representation in prenup agreements.
• Creative solutions in prenups can foster positive relationship dynamics.
• AI cannot replace the value of human connection in relationships.

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In this episode of the Prenup Podcast, host Lilli speaks with matrimonial and family lawyer Jackie Combs about the importance of prenups, cohabitation agreements, and navigating the complexities of family law. Jackie shares her journey into family law, the significance of financial transparency in relationships, and how to approach prenups with fairness and equity. They discuss the challenges faced by blended families, the common pitfalls in prenups, and the role of divorce lawyers in ensuring a smooth process. Jackie emphasizes the need for open communication about finances and the benefits of being proactive in legal matters related to marriage and divorce.

Takeaways

• Prenups should be discussed well before engagement.
• Cohabitation agreements help define property rights in relationships.
• Family law operates on principles of equity and fairness.
• Stay-at-home parents should protect their financial interests in prenups.
• Identifying financial blind spots is crucial before marriage.
• Open communication about finances strengthens relationships.
• Divorce doesn't have to be contentious; amicable solutions exist.
• Postnuptial agreements can address changes in circumstances after marriage.
• Understanding the legal implications of prenups is essential.
• Consulting multiple attorneys can provide clarity and confidence.

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In this episode of The Prenup Podcast, host Lilli engages in a heartfelt conversation with Courtney Heisen, a realtor at Compass New York. They explore Courtney's upbringing in New Jersey, the impact of her parents' divorce, and the lessons learned from her family's dynamics. The discussion delves into Courtney's own experiences with relationships, including her engagement and subsequent breakup, as well as her mother's journey through divorce and remarriage. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, the role of prenups in modern relationships, and the complexities of navigating love and loss.

Takeaways

• The impact of parental divorce can last a lifetime.
• Communication is key in any relationship, especially during tough times.
• Prenups should be normalized as part of the marriage process.
• Grief can significantly affect relationship decisions.
• Courtney's mother was a strong role model
• Navigating relationships requires understanding and compromise.
• It's important to reflect on past relationships for personal growth.
• The stigma around prenups often stems from misunderstandings.
• Every relationship teaches valuable lessons, even if they end.

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