In intimate relationships, subtle and often unconscious dynamics emerge that lead individuals to prey on one another emotionally. These dynamics are not always malevolent in intent but are rooted in unhealed childhood wounds, unresolved trauma, and a profound yearning for emotional safety, peace, and comfort. The term "prey" in this context extends beyond the traditional predator-prey paradigm and delves into how unhealed aspects of ourselves can manipulate or seek sustenance from those we claim to love. This essay explores these predatory tendencies through a deeply psychological, philosophical, and spiritual lens, incorporating insights from influential figures like Krishnamurti, Carl Jung, Babette Rothchild, and others.