so, I first realized this while coming to know about meanings associated with flowers. the problem arises when someone giving or receiving doesn't know about the symbolism. when you think about it, that is how things are. we are perceiving and being perceived all the time. some out there might just think the wrong thing about you or you might do the same. but the key is to not let the second scenario confuse you. be patient until conformation!

https://www.almanac.com/flower-meanings-language-flowers