Big point: You must be committed to long-view parenting because change is a process and not an event.  WHAT WE WISH PARENTING WAS We want parenting to be a set of corrections that change our kids rather than a lifelong process.  Your son hits his little brother. You want him to say, “I hit my brother because of the sin in my heart. It makes me selfish, jealous, and violent, and I am a person who needs to be rescued […] The post The Process first appeared on The Point (church).