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I spoke with a GP yesterday, Dr Ivana Matic-Stancin, who shared something that stopped me in my tracks.
She said:
š¬ āSo many women come in to talk about menopause. And when I ask about their se.xual desire, they just wave me offāāOh no, letās not go there.āā
And hereās whatās fascinatingā¦
š Desire often ends up last on the list.
š„ After the hot flashes.
š¦“ After the joint pain.
š© After the exhaustion.
And yetāwhen weāre not feeling pleasure, when weāre disconnected from touch, joy, and the softness of our own bodiesāeverything else becomes harder.
š«ļø Life feels like a slog.
šµ We dry outāliterally and emotionally.
š§¬ Our health takes a hit.
And we start telling ourselves, āMaybe I just donāt need intimacy anymore.ā
But itās not that we donāt want intimacy.
Itās that we donāt want the version of it weāve been given.
The rushed, disconnected, goal-oriented model?
The one where se.x is for pleasing someone else, or proving something, or chasing an orgasm?
š Thatās the McDonaldās of connection.
And when we were 20, maybe we could swallow that.
But after 40?
š² We want a slow-cooked, home-made meal of an experience.
One full of depth, warmth, and flavour.
š¹ 42% of women report a decline in desire during perimenopause and menopause.
Your host:
Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race.
FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality
https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/
FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy
This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires
Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com
Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.
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I spoke with a GP yesterday, Dr Ivana Matic-Stancin, who shared something that stopped me in my tracks.
She said:
š¬ āSo many women come in to talk about menopause. And when I ask about their se.xual desire, they just wave me offāāOh no, letās not go there.āā
And hereās whatās fascinatingā¦
š Desire often ends up last on the list.
š„ After the hot flashes.
š¦“ After the joint pain.
š© After the exhaustion.
And yetāwhen weāre not feeling pleasure, when weāre disconnected from touch, joy, and the softness of our own bodiesāeverything else becomes harder.
š«ļø Life feels like a slog.
šµ We dry outāliterally and emotionally.
š§¬ Our health takes a hit.
And we start telling ourselves, āMaybe I just donāt need intimacy anymore.ā
But itās not that we donāt want intimacy.
Itās that we donāt want the version of it weāve been given.
The rushed, disconnected, goal-oriented model?
The one where se.x is for pleasing someone else, or proving something, or chasing an orgasm?
š Thatās the McDonaldās of connection.
And when we were 20, maybe we could swallow that.
But after 40?
š² We want a slow-cooked, home-made meal of an experience.
One full of depth, warmth, and flavour.
š¹ 42% of women report a decline in desire during perimenopause and menopause.
Your host:
Tarisha Tourok is the founder of the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement where women learn how to become radiant, confident and own the power and beauty of their sexuality no matter their size, shape, age or race.
FREE MINI COURSE: Unlock Your Sexual Confidence - Learn 5 Practices to Heal Your Relationship with Your Body & Your Sexuality
https://radiantwoman.xperiencify.io/tarishatourokbody/mini-course/
FREE WEBINAR: Women Over 40: Discover 5 Keys to Unlock Your Desire So You Enjoy Heart-Melting Intimacy
This is perfect for women who are in a relationship and feel frustrated with their love life, are single and don't want to repeat past hurtful patterns where they lose themselves and their voice, and women who want to feel confident expressing their longings and desires
Join Free Online where you'll learn 5 obstacles to your desire and 5 actionable strategies to activate your desire so you stop feeling frustrated with your love life https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com
Visit our website at https://www.sexualempowermentforwomen.com to join the Sexually Empowered Radiant Woman movement.