No one goes into marriage with the foremost reason being companionship and others with the fruit of reproduction been the last. That is why when a young man or woman is growing, at a point all everyone will keep asking is, do you have a child? Hardly do some ask, where is your spouse?. It's one reason why even those who marry the love of their lives will go outside their vows to make sure they bear fruit. Hmmm. Paul said he perceived there was a reason why he was apprehended, so, he always endeavours to lay hold on that. When God met with Jacob, he did not allow Him to go without Him (God) Fulfilling the reason (blessing him, Jacob) for which He strove with him. So he said, ...if you don't bless me, am not going neither will I let you go... Have you ever come to the point of asking God, why did you save me?