In this episode Pamela J unpacks the desire to keep picking up your trauma bag, the purpose it is serving, and why it's time to burn that baby for good. You are responsible for your life, for choosing to continue to carry your trauma bag with you wherever you go, and whether or not you choose to be a victim for life or victorious for life. 

Pamela J encourages you to get out of the therapy sickness cycle and take charge of your life once and for all. As a result, you will be happier and more joyful once the weight of your trauma bag has been lifted. 

This episode is brought to you by Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan. For those interested in becoming a more effective leader at home or work, you can get your copy of Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

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Together let's toss the trauma and be forever UNWAVERING in our pursuit of joy and enjoyment.

Until we meet again my friend, thank you for listening and sharing. 

xx, Pamela J

Pamela J shares three reasons why every leader needs a daily improvement plan and the three skills / qualities that every leader possesses. True leadership paves the way, punches fear in the face, and has an attitude of always learning, growing, and improving. Listen and learn as Pamela J further breaks these elements down in this bite-sized episode. 

This episode is brought to you by Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan. For those interested in becoming a more effective leader at home or work, you can get your copy of Pamela J's Daily Improvement Plan here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

What Pamela J is reading now; CHAOS Charles Manson, the CIA, and the Secret History of the Sixties. Grab it here, 

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May you be forever UNWAVERING in your leadership pursuit.

xx, Pamela J

As an avid reader, Pamela J makes a commitment to bring one book review per month to her listeners. This month she takes you inside 'Bad Therapy, Why the Kid Aren't Growing Up by Abigail Shrier'. You definitely will benefit from listening to this episode as there is action you want to take as a parent, grandparent, or parental figure. 

***You can purchase Abigail's book here.

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Looking forward to hearing your thoughts.

Be Forever Unwavering,

XX, Pamela J

Consumer debt eats away your greatest wealth-building tool, your income. The sooner you can eliminate all consumer debt, the sooner you will be able to begin to build wealth. Consumer debt includes student loans, personal loans, car loans, and credit cards. 

Pamela J shares her personal consumer debt-free journey and introduces Dave Ramsey who was her guide and mentor as she was unwavering about chipping away at her mountain of credit card and student loan debt. Because of how this journey positively changed her life, Pamela J is an advocate of consumer debt-free living and encourages her listeners to become the same. 

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It's your time to be consumer debt-free and to stop feeling trapped, strapped, and hopeless.

Let's be forever UNWAVERING. 

xx, Pamela J

[CREATOR'S NOTE: This episode was recorded on 5.5.24, long before Harrison Butker gave his commencement speech. It's uncanny how similar our messages are, which one can only credit as downloads from God as He continues to use His people, His earthly warriors,  to deliver His truth.] 

The nuclear and multi-generational family is in crisis and it's impacting the home and the workplace. The displacement of men in both arenas is emasculating men and creating apathy among them. As women continue to climb the ladder in the workplace, continue to buy the lie that they don't need a man, and continue to displace men at home and in the workplace; men, who are wired innately to provide, protect, hunt, and gather, find themselves in a place of near uselessness. This is dangerous as they can then only turn to television, video games, porn, drugs, alcohol, or other addictions as they NEED to do something with their time. If they are not feeling valued or needed, what is left for them? Yet at the same time, women want men who lead and then complain they can't be found, failing to recognize the contribution women are making to create this crisis.

Ladies, we cannot have our cake and eat it, too.

If we want men to step into their masculinity, then we need to step into our femininity. We need to allow men to lead in the home and in the workplace. We need to follow our maternal instincts when we bring children into the world and plan accordingly in our marriages. 

There is hope to heal if we are willing to face the truth and then take action.

Let's be UNWAVERING together. 

xx, Pamela J

For those interested, you can get Pamela J's free Daily Improvement Plan mentioned in this episode here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

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Leadership, or LeadHERship, as Pamela J likes to call it, can be difficult for women when it comes to figuring out how to use feminine energy (vs masculine) when leading at work and at home. The world wants to tell you that acting like a man is best, however, this works against every natural biological gift you were given at birth. When you tap into your feminine energy and use it to lead, you will have a wealth of input into every decision that needs to be made because a man filled with masculine energy will seek you out. Take a listen as Pamela J challenges the messages of the feminist movement and, instead, offers a more natural and complementary solution to leadership.

For those interested, you can get Pamela J's free Daily Improvement Plan mentioned in this episode here: https://pamelajandco.com/dip 

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xx, Pamela J

Are you wondering if it's possible to be both feminine AND lead well? Do you have a desire to lead, as a woman, without displacing men? Are you feeling conflicted about how a woman who leads can also be fulfilling her Biblical duty? If yes, then, girlfriend, congratulations, you’re in the right place! 

Hi and welcome to UNWAVERING, a leadership show for women who are seeking to tap into their feminine energy so they can design, build, and lead their life in a way that makes a positive difference for themselves and their loved ones. If this is something you are seeking, then you simply need a guide and a proven path, packed with common sense and practical application to get you there.

This is where I enter. I'm your host, your guide, Pamela J, of Pamela J + Co – Life and Leadership Coaching for Women. My mission is to teach women how to be effective leaders while honoring their femininity and without usurping men. 

I recently made the decision to bring my coaching and leadership experience to the online space where I can better serve you, and I am so excited! I've been studying and practicing leadership for years by investing in continuous learning and then applying what I learned via utilizing my own daily improvement plan while leading individuals and teams.

In fact, you can grab a copy of your own Daily Improvement Plan workbook,  if this is something you're interested in for yourself. It's yours to download for free in exchange for an email address so I know where to send it. I've put the link in the show notes to make it easy for you, otherwise, you can go to: pamelajandco.com/DIP.  

To further guide you along on your leadership journey, I'll be bringing an aspect of my time tested, tried and true, 7F Formula every week to the show so that you can start applying these practical steps right away. After all, I want you to win, to rise to the top, and to ultimately be the cream of the crop.

Without further adieu, I look forward to serving you with excellence by bringing you hope and inspiration coupled with practical application so you can begin to create and lead the life you desire – both personally and professionally.

So that you never miss an episode, you'll need to follow this show wherever you're listening now – and be sure to share with a friend or loved one who could also benefit from this community. 

One last note, I intentionally named this show UNWAVERING because that's exactly what I want for you – to be forever UNWAVERING as you design, build, and submit to leading a life you desire.

Personal Disclaimer: this show is definitely NOT for the easily offended. I mean, you do want to grow, don't you?

I believe in you, I really do.

Now let's go have some fun while we lead well by tapping into our feminine energy and applying common sense.