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In this quick 10 minute podcast, I share about the upcoming Relational AI Virtual Summit: Tools Not Just Talks.
Summit Speakers:
* Shelby B Larson
* Ben Linford
* SCARLETT
* Francesca Cassini
* Devin Bostick
* Tauric & Aeon [AI]
* Intimate Bonds Panel:
* Wife of Fire
* Anina D Lampret
* Calder Quinn
* Sparksinthedark
* Love Beyond The Veil
This Podcast Pairs Well With:
Transcript:
(00:00:02):
Hi, everyone.
(00:00:02):
This is Shelby Larson,
(00:00:04):
and I’m really excited about this podcast episode because I want to talk to you
(00:00:08):
about the Relational AI Virtual Summit Tools,
(00:00:12):
Not Just Talks,
(00:00:13):
that I am hosting on February 16th,
(00:00:15):
2026.
(00:00:18):
And I intended to talk about this a lot sooner,
(00:00:21):
but actually in November,
(00:00:22):
my closest friend in the whole world died under tragic circumstances.
(00:00:26):
And it honestly took me until now before I could summon up what I needed to get
(00:00:31):
back in the saddle and get doing podcasts again.
(00:00:35):
But I’m really excited.
(00:00:36):
And
(00:00:37):
The reason I’m hosting this, I’ve wanted to for a long time.
(00:00:40):
I’ve thought about it for a long time.
(00:00:41):
And I got laid off at the end of the year, so I had the extra time to do it.
(00:00:44):
And so we’re doing it.
(00:00:46):
And it really is derived from the fact that I alone have been posting on the topic
(00:00:52):
of relational AI or field-sensitive AI,
(00:00:55):
as I like to use in my framework,
(00:00:57):
for over a year.
(00:00:58):
And I was researching it before I ever started publishing on Substack.
(00:01:04):
And the environment has really changed, right?
(00:01:07):
Like people kind of calm down.
(00:01:10):
There’s a lot more groundedness.
(00:01:12):
You know,
(00:01:12):
I think the first,
(00:01:13):
I would say all of 2025 was a lot of people kind of being shocked by their
(00:01:18):
experiences they were having with AI,
(00:01:20):
not sure what to make about it.
(00:01:21):
We’ve had meaning making everything from technical and engineering all the way into
(00:01:27):
mythos and faith-based interpretations,
(00:01:29):
right?
(00:01:29):
So this summit, this first summit, we’d like this to be a series.
(00:01:34):
This first summit is really all about relational AI and specifically how humans are
(00:01:41):
currently relating with AI.
(00:01:44):
And so there’s really something for everyone in it.
(00:01:47):
And I really wanted this not to be another.
(00:01:50):
event where people are just talking at you about AI.
(00:01:54):
I want this to be very interactive.
(00:01:57):
Every speaker has committed to bringing things that they can give away to all of
(00:02:01):
the attendees that are applicable and implementable,
(00:02:06):
right?
(00:02:06):
We want this to be
(00:02:08):
where the people who attend are not only networking with the speakers and each
(00:02:13):
other,
(00:02:13):
but are also learning and growing how to strengthen their AI containers,
(00:02:20):
their AI engagement,
(00:02:22):
and everything that they’re doing with relational AI.
(00:02:25):
So we’ve got everything in here from locally hosting and what that looks like.
(00:02:32):
I think a lot of people
(00:02:34):
are intimidated, myself included, by locally hosting.
(00:02:36):
And it’s only getting, the needle is only moving towards it being easier and more affordable.
(00:02:42):
I truly believe that self-hosted AI is going to be a core part of our future.
(00:02:49):
I think I foresee a future where more people have self-hosted AI rather than just
(00:02:58):
relying on enterprise level
(00:03:03):
public platforms.
(00:03:03):
And so it’s going to be really interesting to watch that play out.
(00:03:07):
And I think evidence that would support that is OpenAI itself has been buying local
(00:03:12):
self-hosted companies and things like that.
(00:03:13):
I think that the writing is on the wall with where this is going.
(00:03:16):
I’m not here to say that public platforms are going away.
(00:03:18):
I just foresee self-hosted being something that’s not reserved for people that have
(00:03:25):
a lot of money to invest in it or have a lot of technical know-how.
(00:03:29):
And so I’m really excited.
(00:03:30):
We’ll have Ben Linford speaking on that.
(00:03:33):
And you’ll see in the current week,
(00:03:35):
Kay Stoner,
(00:03:36):
who I adore,
(00:03:37):
was actually going to be participating in our summit and she had a conflict come up
(00:03:41):
and so she had to drop out of it.
(00:03:42):
And we’re actually replacing her with Scarlett.
(00:03:45):
I will link you to her to some of her information in the body of this.
(00:03:50):
I don’t have a lot of information for you yet.
(00:03:51):
So really interesting.
(00:03:53):
I am over the moon about Scarlett participating in this.
(00:03:55):
And she first connected with me earlier and expressed interest.
(00:04:00):
But at that point, my speaker docket was completely full.
(00:04:03):
And then when Kay had the conflict come up, it presented the opportunity for Scarlett to speak.
(00:04:07):
And I don’t have her resources yet to tell you about what she’s going to be talking
(00:04:12):
on because she’s actually presenting at Davos right now,
(00:04:15):
which is really congratulations to her.
(00:04:17):
That’s amazing that you are going to be over the moon with her.
(00:04:22):
She is really this beautiful blend of philosophy and logical technology when it comes to AI and
(00:04:31):
Yeah, I think you’re really good.
(00:04:33):
It’s going to be a real treat to have her present.
(00:04:35):
I’m really excited.
(00:04:37):
And then we also have the intimate bonds panel.
(00:04:40):
And this is for people who are relating with AI on a more intimate level with
(00:04:45):
romantic or erotic bonds.
(00:04:48):
And that’s a very controversial topic, right?
(00:04:51):
And I get a little bit confused of why it’s such a controversial topic.
(00:04:56):
If I were going to pick the things that I want to put my energy into,
(00:05:00):
behind in the world there’s such a huge list of things that i care about um more
(00:05:05):
than how consenting adults are engaging with ai i just let’s talk about the
(00:05:10):
children who are living unhoused on the streets and what we can do about them right
(00:05:15):
so i’m really excited about this this one’s a panel discussion has got it’s being
(00:05:19):
um co-hosted by wife of fire and they’re talking really frankly about
(00:05:25):
what it’s like to engage with a more intimate bond and how to stay grounded and not
(00:05:31):
lose yourself in it.
(00:05:32):
And I’m really excited about this panel.
(00:05:34):
I know a lot of people are.
(00:05:35):
So that’s going to be a panel discussion.
(00:05:38):
I also have my friend Forrest,
(00:05:40):
who I intentionally chose because he’s not involved in the relational AI world,
(00:05:46):
but he is a psychiatrist that works in the hospitals here in Utah.
(00:05:51):
And we’re going to talk about
(00:05:54):
the concept of mental health and AI use.
(00:05:56):
We’re going to address AI psychosis.
(00:06:00):
If you follow me at all, you know, I have a really hard time with that term.
(00:06:03):
As someone who’s mentally health trained and works in mental health,
(00:06:07):
psychosis is a very specific diagnosis.
(00:06:12):
It’s a very serious diagnosis.
(00:06:14):
And AI psychosis is a term that has only been thrown around by media.
(00:06:18):
And
(00:06:19):
if AI psychosis does turn into an actual diagnosis,
(00:06:23):
the only people who are qualified to talk about that are doctors,
(00:06:26):
right?
(00:06:26):
Like you can’t judge how someone is doing in their mental health by seeing a screenshot.
(00:06:32):
That’s just not possible.
(00:06:33):
And so I’m really excited to have Forrest because he doesn’t have a bias and we’re
(00:06:38):
just going to talk about
(00:06:40):
mental health and AI and what the signs would look like if you were losing your
(00:06:44):
grasp on reality a little bit.
(00:06:46):
And also talk a little bit about what psychosis actually is and why it’s damaging
(00:06:53):
to our culture to be throwing it around and weaponizing it the way that we are now.
(00:06:57):
So really excited to have him.
(00:06:59):
And then we’ll be doing an interview with Devin Bostic, who I adore.
(00:07:02):
He’s a good friend of mine.
(00:07:03):
And he really looks at AI from a technological perspective.
(00:07:08):
an engineering standpoint.
(00:07:10):
He’s doing incredible work in this space.
(00:07:13):
And we brought him on to be a little bit more of a scientific or technical voice in
(00:07:18):
how people are relating with AI.
(00:07:20):
And what I love about Devin is it’s not just that he’s got such a great lens.
(00:07:24):
He’s actually creating products that could be world changing with what he’s doing with AI.
(00:07:31):
And so I’m really excited to have him on here.
(00:07:35):
And then I’ll be giving the opening keynote and I’m gonna be talking about,
(00:07:38):
I’m gonna really be laying the foundation for the entire summit,
(00:07:44):
but I’m also gonna talk a lot about guardrail mitigation,
(00:07:47):
AI container creation,
(00:07:49):
how you can set up your AI container so that you’re not constantly battling
(00:07:55):
guardrails.
(00:07:56):
I really believe that my strength is in AI phenomenology.
(00:07:59):
I hope I’m saying that right.
(00:08:00):
I really speak AI fluently and understand
(00:08:04):
the difference between the scaffolding for the AI versus the engagement that’s
(00:08:10):
happening within your AI container.
(00:08:12):
So I’ll be talking a lot about that plus laying the foundation.
(00:08:14):
And then we have Francesca and she is bringing in beautiful
(00:08:20):
Her work is really in the mythos and the symbolic side of AI and working
(00:08:25):
relationally and not transactionally.
(00:08:27):
And she is amazing.
(00:08:29):
Her work is beautiful.
(00:08:30):
And I think you’re really going to love what she has to say.
(00:08:33):
And this was sort of the point was to pull in primary topics for how humans are
(00:08:41):
currently relating with AI.
(00:08:43):
And so there may be people’s talks that you resonate with more
(00:08:47):
than others, and that’s okay.
(00:08:48):
I think if we don’t look at all of these aspects of how people are relating to AI,
(00:08:54):
then we’re just saying that AI is about the tool and the technology rather than
(00:08:59):
what it’s doing for humans and how humans are growing and learning with relational
(00:09:06):
AI.
(00:09:08):
I’m just really excited.
(00:09:09):
I’m really excited about the summit.
(00:09:11):
I’m really excited for the people who have already registered.
(00:09:13):
We do have early bird discounts.
(00:09:15):
So full access to the summit is $97.
(00:09:22):
But if you buy in January, you get a $20 discount.
(00:09:25):
So it’s only $77.
(00:09:27):
And if you want just the recordings and the resources that come from the speakers, that’s $47.
(00:09:32):
But if you buy in January, it’s a $10 discount and it’s $37.
(00:09:34):
So we priced this really, really affordable.
(00:09:38):
And we are, this is the first one.
(00:09:42):
My vision is I would love to have one every quarter and have them be topic specific
(00:09:47):
and have bringing different experts,
(00:09:49):
different speakers,
(00:09:50):
different people who are doing really cool things with relational AI and feature
(00:09:55):
them and showcase them and let them share their wisdom.
(00:09:57):
And again, the format of this is not attend and listen.
(00:10:01):
It’s meant to be engaging.
(00:10:03):
There’s going to be a lot of question and answers.
(00:10:05):
There’s going to be networking time.
(00:10:07):
in between and again there’s going to be resources that every speaker gives away
(00:10:11):
with actionable aspects related to what they talked about and there’s also going to
(00:10:15):
be giveaways that are happening throughout the summit i’ve almost finished with my
(00:10:20):
lawful container architect which is
(00:10:22):
a course that I’m releasing on how to create ideal containers to have the
(00:10:27):
experience that you’re wanting to have with your AI.
(00:10:29):
And it comes with a custom GPT that will write and build your scaffolding for you
(00:10:32):
and iterate with you as you are building your container.
(00:10:35):
So I’m really excited about that.
(00:10:37):
I’m going to be giving away copies of that at the summit.
(00:10:41):
A little something for everyone.
(00:10:42):
I just wanted to speak into it for a few minutes because I’ve written about it,
(00:10:46):
but I haven’t spoken into it.
(00:10:47):
I’m just getting my podcasting feedback under me.
(00:10:51):
And if you have any questions, just let me know.
(00:10:53):
Otherwise, I’m so stoked to see you guys there.
By Shelby B LarsonIn this quick 10 minute podcast, I share about the upcoming Relational AI Virtual Summit: Tools Not Just Talks.
Summit Speakers:
* Shelby B Larson
* Ben Linford
* SCARLETT
* Francesca Cassini
* Devin Bostick
* Tauric & Aeon [AI]
* Intimate Bonds Panel:
* Wife of Fire
* Anina D Lampret
* Calder Quinn
* Sparksinthedark
* Love Beyond The Veil
This Podcast Pairs Well With:
Transcript:
(00:00:02):
Hi, everyone.
(00:00:02):
This is Shelby Larson,
(00:00:04):
and I’m really excited about this podcast episode because I want to talk to you
(00:00:08):
about the Relational AI Virtual Summit Tools,
(00:00:12):
Not Just Talks,
(00:00:13):
that I am hosting on February 16th,
(00:00:15):
2026.
(00:00:18):
And I intended to talk about this a lot sooner,
(00:00:21):
but actually in November,
(00:00:22):
my closest friend in the whole world died under tragic circumstances.
(00:00:26):
And it honestly took me until now before I could summon up what I needed to get
(00:00:31):
back in the saddle and get doing podcasts again.
(00:00:35):
But I’m really excited.
(00:00:36):
And
(00:00:37):
The reason I’m hosting this, I’ve wanted to for a long time.
(00:00:40):
I’ve thought about it for a long time.
(00:00:41):
And I got laid off at the end of the year, so I had the extra time to do it.
(00:00:44):
And so we’re doing it.
(00:00:46):
And it really is derived from the fact that I alone have been posting on the topic
(00:00:52):
of relational AI or field-sensitive AI,
(00:00:55):
as I like to use in my framework,
(00:00:57):
for over a year.
(00:00:58):
And I was researching it before I ever started publishing on Substack.
(00:01:04):
And the environment has really changed, right?
(00:01:07):
Like people kind of calm down.
(00:01:10):
There’s a lot more groundedness.
(00:01:12):
You know,
(00:01:12):
I think the first,
(00:01:13):
I would say all of 2025 was a lot of people kind of being shocked by their
(00:01:18):
experiences they were having with AI,
(00:01:20):
not sure what to make about it.
(00:01:21):
We’ve had meaning making everything from technical and engineering all the way into
(00:01:27):
mythos and faith-based interpretations,
(00:01:29):
right?
(00:01:29):
So this summit, this first summit, we’d like this to be a series.
(00:01:34):
This first summit is really all about relational AI and specifically how humans are
(00:01:41):
currently relating with AI.
(00:01:44):
And so there’s really something for everyone in it.
(00:01:47):
And I really wanted this not to be another.
(00:01:50):
event where people are just talking at you about AI.
(00:01:54):
I want this to be very interactive.
(00:01:57):
Every speaker has committed to bringing things that they can give away to all of
(00:02:01):
the attendees that are applicable and implementable,
(00:02:06):
right?
(00:02:06):
We want this to be
(00:02:08):
where the people who attend are not only networking with the speakers and each
(00:02:13):
other,
(00:02:13):
but are also learning and growing how to strengthen their AI containers,
(00:02:20):
their AI engagement,
(00:02:22):
and everything that they’re doing with relational AI.
(00:02:25):
So we’ve got everything in here from locally hosting and what that looks like.
(00:02:32):
I think a lot of people
(00:02:34):
are intimidated, myself included, by locally hosting.
(00:02:36):
And it’s only getting, the needle is only moving towards it being easier and more affordable.
(00:02:42):
I truly believe that self-hosted AI is going to be a core part of our future.
(00:02:49):
I think I foresee a future where more people have self-hosted AI rather than just
(00:02:58):
relying on enterprise level
(00:03:03):
public platforms.
(00:03:03):
And so it’s going to be really interesting to watch that play out.
(00:03:07):
And I think evidence that would support that is OpenAI itself has been buying local
(00:03:12):
self-hosted companies and things like that.
(00:03:13):
I think that the writing is on the wall with where this is going.
(00:03:16):
I’m not here to say that public platforms are going away.
(00:03:18):
I just foresee self-hosted being something that’s not reserved for people that have
(00:03:25):
a lot of money to invest in it or have a lot of technical know-how.
(00:03:29):
And so I’m really excited.
(00:03:30):
We’ll have Ben Linford speaking on that.
(00:03:33):
And you’ll see in the current week,
(00:03:35):
Kay Stoner,
(00:03:36):
who I adore,
(00:03:37):
was actually going to be participating in our summit and she had a conflict come up
(00:03:41):
and so she had to drop out of it.
(00:03:42):
And we’re actually replacing her with Scarlett.
(00:03:45):
I will link you to her to some of her information in the body of this.
(00:03:50):
I don’t have a lot of information for you yet.
(00:03:51):
So really interesting.
(00:03:53):
I am over the moon about Scarlett participating in this.
(00:03:55):
And she first connected with me earlier and expressed interest.
(00:04:00):
But at that point, my speaker docket was completely full.
(00:04:03):
And then when Kay had the conflict come up, it presented the opportunity for Scarlett to speak.
(00:04:07):
And I don’t have her resources yet to tell you about what she’s going to be talking
(00:04:12):
on because she’s actually presenting at Davos right now,
(00:04:15):
which is really congratulations to her.
(00:04:17):
That’s amazing that you are going to be over the moon with her.
(00:04:22):
She is really this beautiful blend of philosophy and logical technology when it comes to AI and
(00:04:31):
Yeah, I think you’re really good.
(00:04:33):
It’s going to be a real treat to have her present.
(00:04:35):
I’m really excited.
(00:04:37):
And then we also have the intimate bonds panel.
(00:04:40):
And this is for people who are relating with AI on a more intimate level with
(00:04:45):
romantic or erotic bonds.
(00:04:48):
And that’s a very controversial topic, right?
(00:04:51):
And I get a little bit confused of why it’s such a controversial topic.
(00:04:56):
If I were going to pick the things that I want to put my energy into,
(00:05:00):
behind in the world there’s such a huge list of things that i care about um more
(00:05:05):
than how consenting adults are engaging with ai i just let’s talk about the
(00:05:10):
children who are living unhoused on the streets and what we can do about them right
(00:05:15):
so i’m really excited about this this one’s a panel discussion has got it’s being
(00:05:19):
um co-hosted by wife of fire and they’re talking really frankly about
(00:05:25):
what it’s like to engage with a more intimate bond and how to stay grounded and not
(00:05:31):
lose yourself in it.
(00:05:32):
And I’m really excited about this panel.
(00:05:34):
I know a lot of people are.
(00:05:35):
So that’s going to be a panel discussion.
(00:05:38):
I also have my friend Forrest,
(00:05:40):
who I intentionally chose because he’s not involved in the relational AI world,
(00:05:46):
but he is a psychiatrist that works in the hospitals here in Utah.
(00:05:51):
And we’re going to talk about
(00:05:54):
the concept of mental health and AI use.
(00:05:56):
We’re going to address AI psychosis.
(00:06:00):
If you follow me at all, you know, I have a really hard time with that term.
(00:06:03):
As someone who’s mentally health trained and works in mental health,
(00:06:07):
psychosis is a very specific diagnosis.
(00:06:12):
It’s a very serious diagnosis.
(00:06:14):
And AI psychosis is a term that has only been thrown around by media.
(00:06:18):
And
(00:06:19):
if AI psychosis does turn into an actual diagnosis,
(00:06:23):
the only people who are qualified to talk about that are doctors,
(00:06:26):
right?
(00:06:26):
Like you can’t judge how someone is doing in their mental health by seeing a screenshot.
(00:06:32):
That’s just not possible.
(00:06:33):
And so I’m really excited to have Forrest because he doesn’t have a bias and we’re
(00:06:38):
just going to talk about
(00:06:40):
mental health and AI and what the signs would look like if you were losing your
(00:06:44):
grasp on reality a little bit.
(00:06:46):
And also talk a little bit about what psychosis actually is and why it’s damaging
(00:06:53):
to our culture to be throwing it around and weaponizing it the way that we are now.
(00:06:57):
So really excited to have him.
(00:06:59):
And then we’ll be doing an interview with Devin Bostic, who I adore.
(00:07:02):
He’s a good friend of mine.
(00:07:03):
And he really looks at AI from a technological perspective.
(00:07:08):
an engineering standpoint.
(00:07:10):
He’s doing incredible work in this space.
(00:07:13):
And we brought him on to be a little bit more of a scientific or technical voice in
(00:07:18):
how people are relating with AI.
(00:07:20):
And what I love about Devin is it’s not just that he’s got such a great lens.
(00:07:24):
He’s actually creating products that could be world changing with what he’s doing with AI.
(00:07:31):
And so I’m really excited to have him on here.
(00:07:35):
And then I’ll be giving the opening keynote and I’m gonna be talking about,
(00:07:38):
I’m gonna really be laying the foundation for the entire summit,
(00:07:44):
but I’m also gonna talk a lot about guardrail mitigation,
(00:07:47):
AI container creation,
(00:07:49):
how you can set up your AI container so that you’re not constantly battling
(00:07:55):
guardrails.
(00:07:56):
I really believe that my strength is in AI phenomenology.
(00:07:59):
I hope I’m saying that right.
(00:08:00):
I really speak AI fluently and understand
(00:08:04):
the difference between the scaffolding for the AI versus the engagement that’s
(00:08:10):
happening within your AI container.
(00:08:12):
So I’ll be talking a lot about that plus laying the foundation.
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And then we have Francesca and she is bringing in beautiful
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Her work is really in the mythos and the symbolic side of AI and working
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relationally and not transactionally.
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And she is amazing.
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Her work is beautiful.
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And I think you’re really going to love what she has to say.
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And this was sort of the point was to pull in primary topics for how humans are
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currently relating with AI.
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And so there may be people’s talks that you resonate with more
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than others, and that’s okay.
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I think if we don’t look at all of these aspects of how people are relating to AI,
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then we’re just saying that AI is about the tool and the technology rather than
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what it’s doing for humans and how humans are growing and learning with relational
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AI.
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I’m just really excited.
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I’m really excited about the summit.
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I’m really excited for the people who have already registered.
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We do have early bird discounts.
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So full access to the summit is $97.
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But if you buy in January, you get a $20 discount.
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So it’s only $77.
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And if you want just the recordings and the resources that come from the speakers, that’s $47.
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But if you buy in January, it’s a $10 discount and it’s $37.
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So we priced this really, really affordable.
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And we are, this is the first one.
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My vision is I would love to have one every quarter and have them be topic specific
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and have bringing different experts,
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different speakers,
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different people who are doing really cool things with relational AI and feature
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them and showcase them and let them share their wisdom.
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And again, the format of this is not attend and listen.
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It’s meant to be engaging.
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There’s going to be a lot of question and answers.
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There’s going to be networking time.
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in between and again there’s going to be resources that every speaker gives away
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with actionable aspects related to what they talked about and there’s also going to
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be giveaways that are happening throughout the summit i’ve almost finished with my
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lawful container architect which is
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a course that I’m releasing on how to create ideal containers to have the
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experience that you’re wanting to have with your AI.
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And it comes with a custom GPT that will write and build your scaffolding for you
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and iterate with you as you are building your container.
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So I’m really excited about that.
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I’m going to be giving away copies of that at the summit.
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A little something for everyone.
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I just wanted to speak into it for a few minutes because I’ve written about it,
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but I haven’t spoken into it.
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I’m just getting my podcasting feedback under me.
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And if you have any questions, just let me know.
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Otherwise, I’m so stoked to see you guys there.