In this episode I speak with Kurt De Bique, a South African who has made the significant transition from Cape Town to Copenhagen. 

Kurt shares his journey, detailing his upbringing in Cape Town, the pivotal moments that led to his family's decision to emigrate, and the challenges they faced during the relocation process. 

He reflects on the emotional farewells to family and friends, the cultural adjustments, and the practicalities of settling into a new country, including housing, schooling, and the cost of living in Denmark.

Kurt emphasises the importance of resilience and adaptability in the face of change, noting that while the move was not without its difficulties, it has also brought about personal and professional growth for both him and his wife. 

He discusses the role of faith in their decision-making process and how it has provided a sense of stability amidst the uncertainties of relocation. 

The conversation also touches on the joys of exploring Europe, the differences in lifestyle, and the unique experiences that come with living abroad, ultimately highlighting the enriching journey of embracing a new life while cherishing the roots left behind.

Kurt De Bique “It's not for the faint-hearted."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest

01:09 Kurt's Background and Early Life in Cape Town

05:08 The Decision to Move to Copenhagen

08:57 Challenges of Relocation and Family Dynamics

15:38 The Role of Faith in the Journey

20:15 Living Conditions and Cost of Living in Denmark

26:37 Coping with the Weather and Language Barriers

32:13 Healthcare and Taxes in Denmark

42:17 Professional Growth and Opportunities Abroad

50:55 What They Miss About South Africa

53:31 Closing Thoughts and Reflections

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In this episode, I speak with John Pereira, a South African living in Ukraine.

We explore his journey from South Africa to the UK at age 20 and eventually to Ukraine. 

John shares his experiences in the British Armed Forces, his deployment to Iraq and Afghanistan, and his life in Ukraine during the ongoing conflict. 

He moved from Kyiv to Lviv due to the ongoing conflict in Kyiv.

He discusses cultural insights, economic comparisons, and the challenges of living in a war-torn country. 

John also reflects on his visit to South Africa and offers advice for young South Africans regarding financial education and opportunities abroad.

John Pereira: “ I wish I saved more”

Chapters

00:00 - Introduction to John Pereira and his journey from South Africa to Ukraine
02:16 - John's early life in Kempton Park and move to the UK in 2004
03:23 - Working as a labourer and medical trials in London
04:50 - Joining the British Army and deployment to Iraq and Afghanistan
10:26 - Experiences in Iraq’s Basra and Helmand Province
12:00 - The reality of war: casualties, survival, and combat
13:00 - Transition to civilian life and life in Scotland as a bouncer and entrepreneur
15:21 - Moving to Ukraine for holiday and decision to settle
16:19 - Life in Kyiv before the full-scale invasion
18:36 - The full-scale invasion: early days, chaos, and resilience
20:02 - Power outages, infrastructure attacks, and the ongoing war
22:12 - Comparing corruption and societal structures in Ukraine and South Africa
23:28 - Living in Lviv: culture, architecture, and local atmosphere
25:46 - Marshal law, military drafts, and the impact on daily life
27:45 - Community involvement, volunteering, and safety measures
30:14 - Ukrainian cuisine, hospitality, and cultural norms
33:31 - Ukrainians' friendliness, language, and cultural nuances
36:41 - Cost of living, salaries, and the IT sector's growth in Ukraine
40:02 - Healthcare system, hospitals, and medical services during wartime
43:11 - Weather adaptation and the Ukrainian lifestyle in winter
45:32 - Clothing, winter gear, and Ukrainian customs
47:33 - Travel routes into Ukraine: Warsaw, Krakow, Budapest, and border challenges
48:36 - Returning briefly to South Africa: perceptions and realities
50:17 - Future prospects for South Africans abroad and John's views on governance

John is very active on TikTok using the handle @diary_safa_john_travel.

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In this conversation, I speak with Dr. Mario Denton a world renowned coach and speaker.

He shares his insights on immigration, personal growth, and the emotional challenges faced by South Africans considering moving abroad. 

He discusses the importance of understanding one's purpose, the emotional costs of immigration, and the need for support networks. 

Dr. Denton emphasises that immigration is not a selfish decision but rather a complex choice influenced by various factors, including personal growth opportunities and family dynamics. 

He also highlights the significance of emotional intelligence in navigating these challenges and encourages individuals to seek guidance in their decision-making process.

According to Dr Denton not everyone is a candidate for emigration-self-awareness is key.

Dr “Mario Denton: "You are the CEO of your own life."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Immigration and Personal Growth

03:09 Dr. Mario Denton's Background and Experience

05:51 Perspectives on Immigration: Selfishness vs. Opportunity

09:03 Emotional and Mindset Challenges in South Africa

11:52 Who Should and Should Not Immigrate?

14:50 Coping with Trauma and Emotional Challenges

17:46 The Role of Parents in Supporting Immigrants

20:58 Maintaining Family Connections Across Borders

24:04 The Costs of Immigration: Emotional and Financial

26:39 Future Considerations for Families in South Africa

27:32 Navigating Life Abroad: Opportunities and Challenges

28:51 Coping with Loneliness: The Emotional Toll of Distance

31:13 The Importance of Sharing: Building Support Networks

33:48 South Africa's Future: Balancing Hope and Reality

38:40 Exploring Opportunities: To Stay or To Go?

41:48 Understanding Disengagement: The Path from Engagement to Disconnection

48:36 Finding Purpose: Aligning Life Choices with Personal Values

Contact Dr Denton at www.drmariodenton.com.

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In this episode, I speak with Abré Van Wyk the host of the KarooKiwi podcast about his personal story of moving from South Africa to Hamilton, New Zealand.

He highlights the immigration process, community integration, and the realities of living abroad. 

We explore his insights on setting up a business, cultural differences, and maintaining connections with South Africa. 

We discuss building community and networks in New Zealand and the inspiration behind the Karookiwi podcast.

He shares some sound advice for anyone considering emigration.

Abré gives us a bit of insight into the cost of living in New Zealand versus South Africa and Australia.

He also stresses how important it is to maintain mental health and faith while abroad.

Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction to Abré’s story and podcast

04:10 - Deciding to move to New Zealand after visiting family

07:12 - The role of family and community in expatriation

08:36 - Origins and goals of the KarooKiwi podcast

10:03 - Guests and topics featured on KarooKiwi podcast

16:39 - Comparing New Zealand and Australia for emigrants

17:40 - Meeting South Africans and social integration

18:45 - Local social customs and community life

20:13 - Challenges of household help and day-to-day living

22:08 - Travel and flight times back to South Africa

23:26 - Reflections on the past year and lessons learned

25:24 - Healthcare in New Zealand: access and costs

29:14 - Tax residency and maintaining South African links

32:16 - What Aubrey would ship from South Africa today

33:42 - Local faith communities and church life in New Zealand

37:23 - Closing remarks and future collaborations

The KarooKiwi website is www.karookiwi.com. Abré is also active on LinkedIn and other social media. Contact Abré at [email protected].

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In episode 48, I  interview Danie Brink, a South African math teacher who has navigated multiple relocations to the US. 

Danie shares his journey from South Africa to the US, discussing his teaching experiences, the challenges of immigration, and the importance of education. 

He also highlights his charity work, Stepping Into Grace, born out of a family tragedy, which provides prosthetic limbs to those in need in South Africa. 

The conversation touches on the realities of life in the US, including the cost of living, community engagement, and the emotional aspects of leaving one's home country.

He discusses moving from being a teacher at the prestigious Pretoria Boys High to almost starting over in America.

His wife homeschools the children and he discusses his views on homeschooling as a teacher himself.

We discuss the cost of living in the US which can be manageable for teachers, especially dual-income families.

He suggests that Immigrants should consider trying life in a new country, as they can always return if needed, as they have proven.

Danie Brink: “We are where God wants us now."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Guest

01:10 Danie’s Background and Journey to the U.S.

07:05 Graduate Studies and Immigration Insights

13:40 The Impact of a Tragic Accident

17:08 Establishing a Nonprofit for Prosthetics

19:10 Life in Georgia and Cultural Connections

25:28 Homeschooling Philosophy and Practices

40:03 A morning run discussion

47:22 American friendships

The charity which provides prosthetic limbs can be found at www.steppingintograce.com.

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In Episode 47 I speak with Nichola Kühne a South African brand specialist and founder of “From Startup to Wunderbrand” podcast.

Nicholas talks about his early life in South Africa, his professional journey in branding and marketing and the adjustments he and his family have made in Norway.

The discussion touches on cultural integration, the South African identity abroad, and the importance of community. 

Nicholas also reflects on the work ethic of South Africans and offers valuable advice for those considering immigration. 

The conversation concludes with insights on personal growth and the joys of living in a new country.

He encourages others to embrace their strengths rather than focus on weaknesses.

Nicholas believes in the value of community and making connections in a new country.

He shares insights on the importance of integrating into the local culture.

Nicholas advises future immigrants to consider Scandinavia for its quality of life.

He expresses gratitude for his journey and the opportunities it has provided.

Nicholas Kühne: “Norway is a play-play land."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Journey

02:41 Nicholas's Background and Early Life

05:35 Career Path and Experiences in Africa

08:24 Emigration to Malaysia and Its Challenges

11:00 Transition to Norway and Cultural Adjustments

13:42 Social Dynamics and Community in Norway

16:26 Navigating Identity as an Expat

19:05 Reflections on South African Heritage

21:40 Business Ventures and Podcasting Journey

24:32 Advice for New Immigrants

30:50 Building Brands for Emerging Markets

38:01 Focusing on Strengths Over Weaknesses

41:38 The South African Work Ethic Abroad

48:24 Navigating Business and Tax in Norway

54:35 Embracing Life in Norway

Nicholas’ podcast is available on all platforms as From Startup to Wunderbrand. His website is: https://www.kuhne.no/

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In this episode, I speak with Reeva Cutting, a South African expat living in Perth, Australia. 

Reeva shares her journey of immigration, the challenges of moving with family, and the importance of mental health and support systems. 

Emigrating three times and finally finding her home in Perth Western Australia, reeva has a wealth of information and advice that she shares in the discussion.

We discuss the financial considerations for immigrants, cultural adjustments, and the reflections on life as an expat. 

Reeva emphasises the need for commitment when relocating and offers valuable advice for those considering immigration.

Reeva Cutting: “Be prepared to change your plan."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Immigration and Blogging

03:02 Reeva's Immigration Journey

05:49 Challenges of Moving with Family

08:59 Navigating Work and Mental Health

11:53 Financial Considerations for Immigrants

14:50 Cultural Adjustments and Support Systems

17:48 Life in Australia vs. South Africa

20:37 Reflections on Expat Life

23:54 Advice for Prospective Immigrants

Reeva´s website is www.proudlysouthafricaninperth.com and she is on Facebook as “Proudly South African in Perth” and you can contact her at [email protected].

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In this episode, I speak  with Wendy Carlsson, a South African who relocated to Sweden. 

Wendy shares her journey from growing up in a coloured community in Cape Town to adapting to life in Sweden.

She shares her experiences with cultural differences, starting a business, and the challenges of being away from her family. 

She reflects on the beauty of her new life while also expressing the emotional complexities of leaving her homeland. 

Wendy offers insights into the cost of living in Sweden, the importance of community, and advice for young South Africans considering emigration.

She makes a point to travel back home regularly to see her family.

Wendy Carlsson: "Life in Sweden has been wonderful, perfect growth for me in that in a world where you don't have to worry about safety," 

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Journey

02:49 Wendy's Background and Early Life

11:51 Life in Sweden: A New Beginning

13:06 Starting a Business in Sweden

15:05 Adapting to Swedish Winters

17:11 Cultural Differences and Food

20:01 Reflections on South Africa

23:26 Cost of Living and Community

28:31 Advice for Young South Africans

33:15 Conclusion and Future Aspirations

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In this episode I speak to Marlene Prentice the owner of Migration Network Australia.

She shares the inspiring journey of a family determined to emigrate to Australia despite facing numerous challenges. 

Their journey motivated her to leave her accounting career to become an immigration agent to help others.

One of the beautiful stories she shares is about a young mother who, lacking qualifications and work experience, embarked on a seven-year journey to secure a visa for her family. Through perseverance and dedication, she successfully navigated the visa process, ultimately achieving her dream of settling in Australia with her family.

She offers valuable advice for people who want to immigrate to Australia.

Marlene prentice: “ I don’t like taking people’s money knowing that they are not going to get a visa…”

00:00 Introduction and Welcome 

00:03 Marlene's Journey to Australia 

00:09 Cultural Differences and Challenges 

00:15 Establishing Migration Network Australia 

00:21 Advice for Future Immigrants 

00:27 Current Immigration Landscape in Australia 

00:33 Conclusion and Contact Information

Marlene’s contact details are as follows: Website https://www.migrationnetworkaustralia.com

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In this episode I speak with Nic Latouf, a South African entrepreneur and co-founder of the Lekker Network. 

We discuss Nic's journey from Pretoria Boys High to building a global network for South Africans, emphasising the importance of community, connection, and the potential of the South African diaspora. 

We explore the challenges and opportunities faced by South Africans abroad, the significance of networking, and the positive impact of the Lekker Network in fostering collaboration and support among its members. 

Nic shares insights on maintaining a positive mindset, the emotional toll of immigration, and the upcoming book 'Winning the Away Game,' which highlights the successes of South Africans worldwide.

He also discusses the need top maintain positivity and wellness for South Africans abroad.

Nic Latouf: “Focus is the key to success."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Relocated South African Podcast

01:10 Nic Latouf: Background and Early Ventures

03:01 The Birth of the Lekker Network

08:42 Building a Global Community of South Africans

12:59 The Power of the South African Diaspora

16:14 Connecting Opportunities: Real Stories of Impact

18:54 Future Plans and the Impact of the Lekker Network

30:37 Maintaining Independence and Future Investments

33:12 The Power of Positivity in the Diaspora

36:22 Navigating Family Dynamics and Immigration Challenges

42:25 Inclusivity in Business Networks

46:56 Celebrating South African Success Stories

53:03 Advice for Young Entrepreneurs

56:59 Balancing Work and Family Life

Nic is active on Linkedin @niclatouf. Visit the Lekker network at www.the lekkernetwork.com.

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