Communication gets weirdly hard when you’re used to being “the easy one.” You know what you want to say, but you freeze, soften it, over explain, or just do the thing yourself, then wonder why you feel resentful later. People pleasing can quietly run your relationships, your workload, and your stress level as a working mom.
In this week's episode of The ROCKSTAR Mom, we sit down with Dr. Julie Shafer, psychologist, relationship coach, and award-winning author, to talk about how people pleasing forms, why it feels safer than conflict, and how it disconnects us from our own needs. Julie shares the concept of “changeback behavior,” the pushback you can expect when you finally start setting boundaries at home, with friends, or at work. When you anticipate that reaction, you stop taking it as proof you were “wrong” to speak up.
Then we get practical with the art of assertive communication. Julie breaks down passive communication, aggressive communication, and the middle ground that protects your peace without steamrolling anyone else.
You’ll learn her simple three-step framework to say what you need clearly: acknowledge their situation, name your situation, and make a direct request.
If you’re ready to stop living on autopilot and start communicating with more clarity, calm, and self-respect, press play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more moms can find this support.
You can learn more about Dr. Julie Shafer below:
https://www.instagram.com/drjulieshafer/
https://www.drjulieshafer.com/
Buy Dr. Julie's Book HERE
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