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The Root - The Power in Saying NO!


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Why we need to learn the power in saying NO!

“You say, “I am allowed to do anything” —but not everything is good for you. You say, “I am allowed to do anything”—but not everything is beneficial. Don’t be concerned for your own good but for the good of others.”

1 Corinthians 10:23-24 

I wasn’t sleeping

I wasn’t eating proper meals

Taking Vitamins

Why can’t you say NO

Is It’s a form of validation, we don’t want to let someone down.

Are you flirting with pleasing an idol?

  • Money
  • Fame - known (Status)
  • Lust - Strong desire for something
  • Power
  • Success
  • Signs that you NEED to say NO to something: 

    1. You are overwhelmed, overworked and TIRED 
    2. You are missing out on the possibility of a God-ordained yes 
    3. You are taking the opportunity away from someone who can serve them better 
    4. How do I learn to say No Practically?

      1. Refer someone else for the opportunity 
      2. CLARITY- Get clear on what God has called me to, what does that look like sitting still. In your quiet time and journaling what he has asked you to do. Listen to What is my Spiritual Brand. Anything that doesn’t align with that vision you say NO to it. 
      3. It’s never answering someone right away giving yourself time to pray and process the request. 
      4. Don’t ignore the lack of peace
      5. Schedule a time that you would engage in certain activities and set boundaries that allow people to only book you during that time. 

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