There isn't one right way to take a sabbatical.
Some people head into one with a list of things they finally have time to accomplish. Others want to travel, explore, and experience a different way of living. Some need to turn inward and reconnect with parts of themselves they've lost along the way.
Knowing what you need matters.
In part two of Alan's conversation with DJ DiDonna, they dig into three sabbatical archetypes DJ identified through his research: the achiever, the explorer, and the seeker. Each approaches time away differently, and each has its own opportunities and pitfalls.
For the achiever, a sabbatical can quickly become another job. The explorer can become so focused on what's somewhere else that they miss what's right in front of them. The seeker can do important internal work but forget that sabbatical should also include other people, experiences, and some fun.
The conversation moves from there into a bigger question: What would you regret not doing with your life?
DJ describes sabbatical as a kind of "regret insurance." It gives you an opportunity to stop putting meaningful things off until retirement and actually test some of the ideas you've been carrying around. Sometimes you discover something you want more of. Other times, you discover the thing you've dreamed about for years isn't actually what you want. Both are valuable.
The point isn't to create the perfect sabbatical. It's to know yourself well enough to create the space you actually need.
In this episode
The achiever, explorer, and seeker sabbatical archetypesWhy achievers need to be careful not to turn sabbatical into another jobHow exploration can create awe, wonder, and a wider view of what's possibleWhy sabbatical can help you rediscover interests and parts of yourself you've left behindHow Alan's reflective, connective, adventure, and "sacred work" framework overlaps with DJ's researchWhy DJ describes sabbatical as "regret insurance"How time away can help you test assumptions about what you want from the next season of lifeWhy courage and self-knowledge both matter when making meaningful changesWhat DJ hopes sabbaticals could look like ten years from nowHow to move sabbatical from "that would be nice someday" to something you can actually plan forWhy real disconnection from work matters once your sabbatical beginsA question to carry with you
What would you regret not doing?
Not what sounds impressive. Not what someone else thinks you should do. What is something you've carried with you for years and keep telling yourself you'll get to someday?
Maybe it's traveling somewhere, learning a language, developing a skill, spending meaningful time with your family, exploring your faith, creating something, or simply finding out whether the life you've imagined is actually the life you want.
DJ's challenge is to make it concrete. Spend 30 minutes with a journal and start writing those things down. Then ask yourself why they haven't happened and when they realistically could.
Maybe your sabbatical isn't possible this year. Maybe it isn't possible for five years.
That's different from someday.
About DJ DiDonna
DJ DiDonna is a Senior Lecturer of Business Administration at Harvard Business School, where he teaches MBA courses on entrepreneurship and building meaningful professional and personal lives. He has spent his career translating social science research into real-world tools for positive change.
In 2019, DJ founded The Sabbatical Project to define, explore, and research the role of sabbaticals in modern life. He has helped organizations around the world, from nonprofits to Fortune 50 companies, design and implement sabbatical policies.
His work has been featured in The Atlantic, Harvard Business Review, Time, Fast Company, The Wall Street Journal, and The New York Times.
His new book, Big Time Off, brings together his research, personal experience, and stories from sabbatical takers to explore what becomes possible when we create meaningful time away from work.
Resources
DJ's new book brings together years of research and real-world stories about sabbaticals and extended time away from work.
Research, stories, and resources exploring the role of sabbaticals in modern life and work.
linkedin.com/in/djdidonna
Alan Briggs' field guide for preparing for, experiencing, and returning well from a sabbatical.
If this conversation has moved sabbatical from something that sounds interesting to something you're seriously considering, Sabbatical Coaching Group can help you figure out your next right step.
Learn more at sabbaticalcoachinggroup.com.