Love By Design

The Sacred Connectors (4/6 + 4/1)


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"The Women Who Build Love Through Community"


Some women find love through chance encounters. Others build it through their world.

In this episode, Joan explores the two "connector" archetypes—the 4/6 and 4/1—and why their greatest dating asset is the community they've already built. These are the women who date through trust, who need friendship before romance, and who create love that's rooted in something deeper than chemistry.

If you've ever felt "behind" because you're not on dating apps, or been told you're "too picky" about who you let in, this episode will show you why your network is your superpower.

Key Concepts:

  • Line 4: The Opportunist/Networker - builds through community
  • 4/6: The Heart-Led Oracle - needs community AND evolution
  • 4/1: The Devoted Anchor - needs community AND foundation
  • Community as asset, not dictator


Reflection Questions:

  1. Do I seek evolution (4/6) or foundation (4/1) in partnership?
  2. Am I using my network, or hiding in it?
  3. Where am I prioritizing external approval over internal truth?
  4. Am I staying loyal to relationships that no longer serve me?


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Love By DesignBy Joan Nwosu