Tales From the Toolbox. Stories from Hand in Hand Parenting

The Science One: Geek Out with Us ;-)

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Join all five of the Tales from the Toolbox Team, Kelly, Belynda, Stacy, Alice and Lara, for a short bonus episode where they geek out a bit about the science behind Hand in Hand parenting and taking a connection-based approach. 

If you’re curious about what happens in our brains as we seek safety and connection and the practical implications of this through childhood and adolescence then this is the episode for you.

You’ll hear more about:

  • The brain science that helps us understand what’s going on for our kids in hard moments.
  • How to help them to gain the safety that allows their thinking brain to come back ‘online’ after they’ve been off-track or upset. 
  • Why breaks in connection WILL happen, and some reassuring information about why this is ok.
  • How children develop an internalised sense of safety and connection as they grow and develop, and the importance of repairing it when it inevitably breaks. 
  • How connection is the super protective factor in supporting adolescents as they make the transition to adulthood.


    • Join us!

    If you are interested in finding a Listening Partner, see our previous episode all about this amazing parent support tool at ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/listening-partnerships-the-missing-piece-in-the/id1652623498?i=1000587203616⁠  If you’d like to join the Tales from the Toolbox WhatsApp Group for Listening Partnerships, please complete this form and we’ll email you the details: ⁠https://forms.gle/DjjbTBxfTat1EMLE8⁠ 

    You might enjoy some of the following resources on connection-focused parenting.

    This article discusses the ETR study we mention in the episode. https://www.handinhandparenting.org/2011/11/parent-child-connectedness-takes-us-beyond-emotional-intelligence/

    Parenting from the Inside Out by Daniel Seigel is a wonderful book if you want to learn more about the interpersonal neurobiology and attachment research that’s happening in a parent-child relationship, whether we realise or not. 

    https://www.handinhandparenting.org/2017/01/science-behind-hand-hand-parenting-tool-staylistening/


    https://www.handinhandparenting.org/2019/09/brain-science-of-childrens-emotions-replay/ 

    Listen by Patty Wipfler and Tosha Schore is a great place to learn more about all the Hand in Hand Parenting tools (and is also available as an audiobook): ⁠https://www.handinhandparenting.org/listen-five-simple-tools/⁠ 


    You can connect with Belynda in Australia at [email protected]

    You can connect with Alice in Shetland at [email protected]

    You can connect with Lara in London at [email protected]

    You can connect with Stacy in California at [email protected]

    You can connect with Kelly in South Africa at [email protected]

    You can continue the conversation with us at [email protected] or you can follow on social media @talesfromthetoolboxpodcast

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    Wishing you lots of connection and joy in your parenting, and thanks for listening.

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