🎙️ Manlihood | Hosted by Josh Hatcher

In this raw and essential conversation, we’re diving into the sex talk most men never had—but desperately need. Josh Hatcher, host of Manlihood, sits down with Sam Jolman, a therapist, writer, and expert on men's issues, to discuss the myths, struggles, and silence around masculine sexuality.

🔹 Why do men struggle to talk about sex?🔹 How does shame shape our sexual identity?🔹 What does true sexual wholeness look like?

Sam’s insights from his new book The Sex Talk You Never Got will challenge everything you thought you knew about desire, masculinity, and faith. If you're looking for a podcast for men that tackles real issues with honesty and depth, this episode is a must-listen.

🎧 LISTEN & WATCH NOW:🔥 Men, it's time to break the silence and reclaim our sexuality with confidence and purpose.

📌 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Introduction to the Unspoken Sex Talk

01:28 Meet Sam Jolman: Expert on Men's Sexuality

02:09 Join the Manlihood Community

02:53 Starting the Conversation with Sam Jolman

02:57 The Struggles Men Face with Sexuality

05:23 The Roadkill Anecdote (Trust us, it makes sense!)

08:38 Diving Deeper into Men's Sexuality

15:44 Understanding Men's Emotional Needs

21:24 The Vulnerability of Discussing Sex

26:51 Embracing the Lover Archetype

31:54 Understanding the Need for Comfort

33:27 Personal Struggles and Relationship Impact

36:13 Healing and Counseling

38:37 Statistics and Sexual Abuse

44:39 Exploring Personal Sexual History

49:01 The Journey to Healing

54:49 Advice for Men and Final Thoughts

📖 ABOUT OUR GUEST: SAM JOLMAN🧑‍⚕️ Sam Jolman is a licensed professional counselor specializing in men’s issues, marriage counseling, and sexual abuse recovery. With over 20 years of experience, Sam has helped countless men untangle the confusion, shame, and silence surrounding their sexuality.

His training includes a Master of Arts in Counseling from Reformed Theological Seminary and further specialization in Narrative Focused Trauma Care from The Allender Center. He has also led men’s wilderness trips, helping men find healing through adventure and deep conversation.

👨‍👩‍👦 Husband. Father. Crossfitter. Writer. Counselor. Sam brings a raw, honest, and deeply compassionate approach to men’s mental, emotional, and sexual health.

🔗 Learn more about Sam Jolman:➡️ Website: https://www.samjolman.com/➡️ His Book: The Sex Talk You Never Got – Get it here➡️ Follow Sam’s writing on Substack: samjolman.substack.com

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