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The Showmom Code episodes

January 02 Episode 12: The Showmom Code x The Grand Drive - Drive 1
In Episode 12, The Showmom Code teams up with The Grand Drive podcast for the first of several collaborations. Jordan, Brandy and Luke Sims talk podcasting, show culture and how the livestock industry looks different across the country.
From building podcast communities and sharing show experiences in Florida and Texas, to jackpots, point series and Ringside Unfiltered conversations on fitting trends, this episode keeps it real. No matter where you’re listening—from the barn aisle to the show stands—this one’s all about honest perspectives and real-life show ring conversations.
🎧 Tune in and join us across the aisles.
1 hr 5 min
December 19, 2025 Episode 11 : Nationals Ready: Preparing Your Family, Your Animals & Your Heart with Carin Vickery
Episode 11: Packing Faith & Feed — Prepping for a National Show
National shows are exciting, exhausting and unforgettable and they can also feel overwhelming. Jordan and Brandy walk through how to prepare mentally and logistically so your family can step into show week with confidence and as much peace as possible. We talk real-life expectations, supporting kids under pressure and handling the chaos of travel. Special guest Carin Vickery from NSR joins us to share what families can expect at the NJSA Winter National. If you’re headed to a big show, this episode is your roadmap and your reminder that God goes before you.
1 hr 32 min
December 05, 2025 Episode 10 : Rerouted — The Hard Seasons No One Talks About
Every show family walks through “that” season—the one that doesn’t look anything like the plan. In this episode, Jordan and Brandy talk about how to navigate the unexpected: supporting your kids through discouraging moments, resetting goals without quitting, and trusting God when the season feels messy. If you’re feeling off-track, overwhelmed, or discouraged in the barn, this conversation will remind you that you’re not failing—you’re growing.
1 hr 1 min
November 21, 2025 Episode 9: Building Legacy and Impact Beyond the Show
Jordan and Brandy dive into how showing livestock builds more than winners — it builds character, confidence and future leaders. From early mornings in the barn to lessons in responsibility, teamwork and integrity, they share how these moments shape kids for life beyond the show ring. Plus, they talk about the vital role moms play in raising the next generation of agricultural leaders.
💪 Showmom Challenge: Encourage a new show family or younger showman this week because legacy isn’t built in the ring, it’s built when we lift others up.
1 hr 5 min
November 07, 2025 Episode 8: Behind the Ring: How We Host a Livestock Show
Jordan and Brandy take you behind the scenes of hosting a livestock show from booking judges and setting up arenas to managing entries and handling the chaos that comes with it all. They share real stories, honest lessons and pro tips for anyone brave enough to tackle hosting a show. Plus, this week’s Showmom Challenge reminds us to thank the coordinators who make it all happen.
1 hr 17 min
October 24, 2025 Episode 7: Legends, Leadership & Showmom Life with Emily Miller & Ellen Knauth
1 hr 50 min
October 10, 2025 Episode 6: The Unspoken Code of the Livestock World
The barn has its own language and most of it is silent. In this episode, we’re diving into the unspoken rules of the show world: the quiet rhythms, boundaries, and values that every seasoned family knows but rarely says out loud.
From trailer parking and ringside etiquette to knowing when to speak and when to stay silent, we explore the code that shapes how we show, raise kids, and build trust in this community.
We also open the episode with our NEW segment - The Praise Report - where we give God the glory for the answered prayers, quiet victories, and unexpected blessings in and out of the barn.
And in Ringside Unfiltered, we answer two listener questions from first-year 4-H moms navigating friendships, competition, and fair week grace.
Whether you’re brand new or a seasoned showmom, this episode reminds us that the best lessons in the barn aren’t always taught. They’re lived.
1 hr 20 min
September 26, 2025 Episode 5: The Mental Load of a Showmom
Behind every seamless show day is a showmom quietly managing a mountain of invisible tasks from scheduling vet appointments and handling paperwork to juggling snacks, emotions, and last minute emergencies.
This episode breaks down the mental load of show life - the hidden tasks and emotional weight showmoms carry every day. You’ll get practical ways to stay on top of it all, protect your emotional well being, and hopefully finally stop trying to do it all alone.
Sponsored by Heritage Concrete Construction - building legacies with integrity.
🎧 Listen in for:
• Tools to lighten your mental load
• Why sometimes - good enough really is enough
• This week’s listener Q&A in Ringside Unfiltered
• A powerful reminder that asking for help is a strength, not a weakness
Plus, this week’s Showmom Challenge is your first step toward building the supportive community every showmom deserves.
Hit play and give yourself the gift of support. You’ve got this, Showmom. See you ringside.
1 hr 30 min
September 12, 2025 Episode 4: Livestock Lowdown: How Buying Livestock Really Works
Welcome back to The Showmom Code! You’re here with Jordan and Brandy, and today we’re tackling a topic every show family has to navigate at some point—buying show stock.
Whether you're brand new to the barn or just want to understand the why behind the how, this episode breaks down what it really takes to buy livestock—from sale platforms and breeder relationships to budget expectations and pro tips for families at every level.
We’re also diving into Barn Rule 105: Knowledge is Power, because the more you know going in, the better equipped you are to make smart, confident decisions for your kids and your program.
🎉 Huge thanks to Umbarger Show Feed’s Fullback for sponsoring this episode!
🧠 In This Episode:
The big picture of what buying show animals really involves
Why timing is everything
How to build relationships with breeders
The differences between private treaty, bid board sales, online sales, live auctions, and fitters/brokers
Our go-to platforms
Listener question in Ringside Unfiltered about family involvement and judgment in the barn
Plus: This week’s Showmom Challenge—share your first livestock buy story!
🎯 Whether it was a total win or a total mess, we want to hear how your first livestock purchase went. Share your story and tag us with #TheShowmomCode.
🧼 In Ringside Unfiltered, we answer a listener question about parents helping with projects—and how to handle those snide comments when you're right there feeding, washing, or fitting with your kid. Spoiler alert: helping isn’t cheating—it’s showing up.
If you’re heading into buying season, this one’s a must-listen.
💡 You don’t have to know everything—you just have to keep learning.
1 hr 11 min
August 29, 2025 Episode 3: Getting the Barn & Your Family Ready
In this episode of The Showmom Code, Jordan and Brandy are tackling all things prep — because a new show season means a fresh start for your barn and your people. From scrubbing stalls and checking heat lamps to setting individual and family goals, this is your guide to starting strong and staying intentional.
We’re diving into:
* The must-do checklist for getting your barn ready
* Our favorite disinfecting tips (and the one step you should always do first)
* What to look for when inspecting pens, water lines, and fans
* How to help your kids set realistic, age-appropriate goals
* The importance of tracking progress — and celebrating wins
Plus, in this week’s Showmom Challenge, we want to see how your family sets goals for the new season. Snap a photo of your system — chalkboard, poster, post-it — and tag us @TheShowmomCode.
Stick around for Ringside Unfiltered, where we answer real questions from real showmoms, thanks to this week’s sponsor: Dieter’s Unlimited.
💡 Barn Rule 103: Prepare with a Purpose. Because a clean barn and clear goals are the best way to start the season strong.
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1 hr 6 min