Standards are personal, but they live inside relationships. The Standard Map is a short, practical exercise you can run in under ten minutes that redraws where your standards need to defend attention, presence, and integrity. James guides you through naming five priority relationships (partner, child, boss, teammate, self), assigning one narrow, testable standard to protect for each, and choosing a single interaction rule (how decisions, interruptions, praise, or conflict should be handled). The episode gives exact, calm language to state each standard, a consent script to offer the map to another person without pressure, and a simple seven‑day micro‑trial to test whether the map reduced negotiation and preserved margin. This is stewardship, not policing: small, explicit rules that keep relationships reliable and your standards alive. If this matters to you, subscribe — and map one relationship tonight.