This week I discuss chapter 4 of the book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A F*ck, The Value of Suffering, by Mark Manson. We get to control what our problems mean based on how we choose to thin about them, the standard by which we choose to measure them.   If you want to change how you see your problems, you have to change what you value and/or how you measure failure/success.  Just some thoughts that are shared throughout this chapter. Take a listen, I know you will be happy you did.