In this episode, I reflect on the subtle and often confusing ways people can show they aren’t truly rooting for you. We’re used to talking about obvious “fake friends,” but what about the quiet moments that slowly chip away at your confidence?

I share a personal story from my college years about a leadership role I earned in a student organization that meant a lot to me and how a close friend’s response made me realize something was off. I also unpack another moment that revealed how easily support can turn into sarcasm or dismissal when people feel uncomfortable with your growth.

This episode is about learning to trust your instincts, recognizing projection, and understanding that not everyone is meant to be in your front row, even if they’ve been in your life for years. If you’ve ever felt deflated after sharing good news, this one is for you.