Man meets woman, man likes what he sees, after some time man decides to ask woman for more than platonic friendship, woman spends almost eternity giving a reply to man's proposal... Does this sound familiar? If it doesn't, well, this is far too common an occurence when it comes to "asking a girl out" especially in modern day Nigeria, that is why I invited a "culprit" to a discuss so we can all learn what and how to do better in budding relationships.