Welcome to the first hangout of the year! Kevin and I sat down to talk about what are standards are when it comes to finding a romantic partner and how our standards evolved overtime (aka spilled the tea on my previous relationships). It's 2021, kings and queens, we do not have time this year for dating people who are doing the *bare minimum*. If you have any topics you want me to talk about, my ins: @hollyhaoo and my blog is: https://thesofttimespodcast.blogspot.com/