Attachment and bonding don’t always come naturally in foster and adoptive homes—and that doesn’t mean anyone is failing.

In this episode, we unpack some of the most common misconceptions foster and adoptive parents have about bonding and attachment, including the belief that love, time, and consistency alone will “fix” attachment struggles.

We explore why foster and adopted children often struggle with healthy attachment, how early trauma, loss, and disrupted caregiving shape the nervous system, and why behaviors that look like rejection or defiance are often rooted in self-protection.

Most importantly, we share practical, trauma-informed practices for the home—simple shifts that help create safety, build trust, and nurture connection over time. If attachment feels slow, confusing, or one-sided in your home, this conversation is for you.

Bonding isn’t broken—it’s built differently.