The thisis4my30s’s Podcast

In todays episode we talk/ ask questions on how to find friends. Do you think it's harder to find/make friends as an adult? What makes a friend a good friend? These are just a few questions we asked each other. 

Want to be our friends? 

In this episode, we asked several questions regarding friendships. How do you make a new friend? What qualities are important in friends? What's annoying? Can you have friends of the opposite sex/? That last question can only be applied to those that are heterosexual. 

Tune in to hear Nikki and Carmen answer all the questions above and more! After you hear our answers, can you imagine being friends with us?

Welcome back! Looking forward to the new year, let's talk about change!

Not the kind that jingles, the kind that teaches us lessons!

We talk about our move (yes, BBC moved out to new apartments! Can we get an "amen"?!), we talk about dating (and those "special pictures" sent to us), we talk about potential career changes (and the steps being taken for it), and we talk about our physical changes (how we did during the pandemic, where we are now, and what our plans are for the very near future. Do you want to do a 5k with us?).  

Oh dating ... We have been there and done that. If you haven't listened to one of our first episodes, "Dates and Dicks", check it out! But in the meantime and in between time, listen to our stories about catfishing and trophy men. These are two ends of the dating spectrum. Have you ever been catfished? I mean ... Why do it at all? What about having that one FOOOOOINE man in your arms and in your bed? Jesus talk the wheel! 

Tune in to Nicki's and Carmen's stories about our catfish and trophy man experiences! 

In this episode, we talk about our experiences with paintballing! Have you tried it before? If so, what did you think of it? Was it fun? Scary? Talk about "First Player Shooter" experiences! This is the real deal Holyfield! It kind of hurts but we are going back for more!

Speaking of "MORE", Nicki and Carmen have big dreams for more! We want more time to live life, more money to fund our professional desires, more property to leave behind for the kids! How can we create generational wealth without sacrificing every ounce of our time and money?

Welcome back to Part. 2 of our "Mentally Stimulate Me" card game! Last time, Carmen and Nicki asked and answered questions directly. On this round, Carmen and Nicki ask the question and then immediately guess what the other might answer. Find out how well do they know each other! 

How can we get to know each other better? Carmen, who is naturally an introvert, decided to buy a card game to help with ice breaker questions to get to know her friends and potential love interests. 

In this episode, Carmen and Nicki play the card game called, "Mentally Stimulate Me" and ask each other some of the questions in the deck. Get to know Carmen and Nicki better as they answer the questions. Can you envision being friends with them? 

Since we are all still stuck at home, our movie nights are at the crib! We grabbed our popcorn, candy, and drinks to watch TWO movies in the comfort in our own homes. In this episode, we reviewed "One night in Miami" and "Soul". 

Movie Overview:

"One night in Miami" is about Cassius Clay, Malcom X, Sam Cooke, and Jim Brown coming together on February 25, 1964 to discuss black men and their responsibility during the civil rights movement.

"Soul" is about a middle school band teacher whose life takes a turn ... to another realm called "The great before". In this new realm, he is in charge to help another "soul" find their passion before they can enter earth. During his time as a mentor, he discovers more about himself.

In this episode we talk about gender roles and question if we should conform to them. We touch on what's "socially acceptable or not acceptable" when is comes to attire, behavior, and emotions between men and women. We tell our stories, share our thoughts, and experiences. Do you know what we think? Fu6K them rules!!