“When I got quiet, I just knew it was okay. There was nothing to worry about.”

Susan Marmot’s journey through heartbreak, self-discovery, and true connection is powerful. She opens up about marrying young in search of safety, leaving a marriage that no longer served her, and the surprising, grounded way she eventually found love again. Not by fixing herself, but by being deeply present and trusting her inner wisdom. This conversation is heartfelt, funny, raw, and full of life lessons that will resonate with anyone who’s ever doubted whether real love is still possible for them.

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What You'll Love About This Conversation:



• From lost to found: Susan shares how she went from choosing relationships out of insecurity to finding real partnership by listening to and trusting her inner voice.
• Letting go of overthinking: She learned to stop bringing every anxious thought into her relationships, creating space for a deeper connection to flourish.
• Love that feels like home: Her second marriage is built on presence, playfulness, and mutual respect - and it all began with one simple decision to stay in the moment.

Next Step: If you're feeling stuck in love, ask yourself: What would change if I stopped trying to figure it all out and followed what feels right now?

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Remember when you said you were scared to leave because of the kids? Susan’s story might give you the courage you need.

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