In this episode, I mind-blended with Dr. Larry Schooler, communication scholar and conflict resolution practitioner, to explore why politeness isn’t the same as thoughtfulness—and why that distinction matters more than ever.

From silent meetings to emotionally charged emails, we unpack how unexamined communication escalates tension, drains energy, and erodes trust. Larry shares practical ways to pause, check assumptions, and express honesty without brutality.

This isn’t about being agreeable. It’s about staying credible, regulated, and effective—at work and in your relationships.

If you want influence without escalation, this conversation is for you.

About Dr. Larry Schooler

Larry is a multifaceted expert in public engagement, mediation, and conflict resolution. After transitioning from an award-winning career in journalism, he developed innovative strategies for civic involvement in local government and now advises global agencies on building community consensus. His extensive body of work includes research on transitional justice, urban planning, and restorative justice, reflecting a career-long commitment to improving how institutions interact with the public. As a faculty member and senior advisor, he focuses on transforming traditional city meetings into collaborative processes that produce sustainable solutions for complex societal disputes. 

You can connect with Larry on LinkedIn.

Mind Blend is all about real experiences and meaningful conversations—through sharing these insights, I hope to inspire and empower you as you navigate your unique journey.

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