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The Toddler in the Suit
When someone starts acting out or trying to bait you into a fight, take a tactical second to look at them—really look at them. Underneath that expensive suit or that loud voice is usually just a frustrated toddler who didn't get their way. Once you see the "inner child" throwing a tantrum, it’s impossible to stay angry at them. You don't get mad at a three-year-old for crying over a dropped cracker, right? You just wait for the noise to stop. Do the same with the adults. Smile, stay steady, and wait for the fever to break. You’re the grown-up in the room. Act like it.
By Thomas AlexanderThe Toddler in the Suit
When someone starts acting out or trying to bait you into a fight, take a tactical second to look at them—really look at them. Underneath that expensive suit or that loud voice is usually just a frustrated toddler who didn't get their way. Once you see the "inner child" throwing a tantrum, it’s impossible to stay angry at them. You don't get mad at a three-year-old for crying over a dropped cracker, right? You just wait for the noise to stop. Do the same with the adults. Smile, stay steady, and wait for the fever to break. You’re the grown-up in the room. Act like it.