When people put their words on you. If they don't line up with the Word of God and what God has said about you..DO NOT ACCEPT IT!!! Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. Learn to be a great listener. Proverbs 13;20 He who walks with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools will be destroyed.