The Transman and His Queen

It's the "tangents" episode! Stick with Rowan and Devin as they discuss 2025, vision boards, manifesting, being all of who we are, trusting our training, uncle so and so being a turd, trusting our heart to guide us, leaving space in our goals, and staying out of the chaos so we can hear the whispers. 

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We've been hearing a lot about resilience lately. Some say it's important while others say no thanks-they'd rather not have to be so resilient. Rowan and Devin get into how they feel about it. They talk about challenges, getting stronger, and how recovery is essential to it.

Devin discusses the courage and persistence of the trans community and "the pain of resistance versus the gain of resilience."

They both talk about the holidays, chosen family, asking ourselves what we really want and cookies!

Rowan and Devin wish you a happy holiday and Devin says to remember, "There's a lot about you that's worth celebrating."

Also, Rowan wants to add that she mentions a book called "Choose Strong" but she has changed the title to "Nice Shmice." She will share more details next episode.

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These are challenging times. In the wake of the Nov. 5, 2024 US election results, Rowan and Devin talk about responding to something that unexpectedly slams us to the mat. What do we do now? They say "we are strong, resilient and we know how to love." Devin shares about the amount of determination it takes to live as a trans person. And Rowan discusses, from a black belt perspective, finding our strength and responding strategically from there.

Hear what Rowan means when she says "It's a decision. I said ENOUGH." 

And what Devin means by "I'm not marginalized, actually I'm maximized."

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Heather Pace, chef, owner of Sweetly Raw Desserts, author, and Instagram foodie, joins Rowan to discuss her journey from dating men to finding true love with a woman. Heather shares about chasing the fairytale life we're all taught to want, finally saying enough, and finding love. She talks about how cultural norms got in the way of love and a real relationship and how love is love.

Visit Heather's website https://sweetlyraw.ca/

Heather's Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sweetlyrawdesserts/

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Rowan and Devin got together 5 years ago, then 2 years into their relationship Devin transitioned, female to male. Did Rowan lose the woman she fell in love with? Did she have to grieve the loss of that woman?

She fell in love with a woman but now he's a dude. Devin changed his pronouns from she/her to he/him. These are facts, but did Rowan lose anyone? Or anything? How did she deal with that and what does it mean to her?

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Rowan says she's a queer woman in love with a transman and that doesn't fit labels. What does one do about that?

She talks about putting love before labels and how we need to, as a greater LGBTQIA+ community, stop making each other feel like we're not enough! Not gay enough, not lesbian enough, not whatever enough. She mentions Bisexual Awareness Week and how labels both help us and hurt us.

This episode is marked as explicit because there's one F-bomb. Other than that you're good if you want to listen with younger ears around.

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Rowan and Devin discuss the question what's in Devin's pants and other innapropriate things to say to a trans person. Are questions ok? Not ok? 

They talk about Dan Levy, Jodie Foster, Nava Mau, and LGBTQ+ representation at the Emmys.

Devin gets passionate about seeing the common humanity in people and they both get into chosen names, pronouns, expression and identity.

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Rowan and Devin play This or That? 

Among other things, they talk about:

• How neither of them does binaries or rules well
• Devin's dream to drive a Monster truck
• Rowan's love of Montreal bagels
• That cars have no gender!
• Drag baseball
• Laverne Cox
• The L Word
• "Hot Dog" in French
• Going to the gym as a trans person
• Rowan chooses "girlboy"
• Drag brunch

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The transman and his Queen is a listener supported podcast. To support our work please consider signing up for Patreon here, buy some fab  merch here

Also - you can support our work with the book and in general with "Buy us a Coffee" here. We work better with coffee ;) THANK YOU!

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Rowan talks about Olympic Champion boxer Imane Khelif, the controversy that errupted around her and triumph over hate. As a woman who has trained in full contact fighting, Rowan has things to say about the ignorance of those who spread the misinformation and hate around Khelif's gender and who called her out for being trans and lying. (All false)

Rowan shares how she and Devin get hate comments and why they choose to focus on love. She says there's so much love out here and it's time for love to get louder.

The transman and his Queen is a listener supported podcast. To support our work please consider signing up for Patreon here, buy some fab merch here

Also - you can support our work with the book and in general with "Buy us a Coffee" here. We work better with coffee ;) THANK YOU!

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Podcast created and produced by Rowan Brunet and Rovin Media

Rowan gets into love and gender and how we tend to consider a transition or someone being transgender as a big weird thing that breaks the rules - but she asks, is it really? She looks at the questions "how can she love a transman?" and "how can she dare to love again?" 

Are we asking the right questions? Rowan believes there's a deeper question for all of us.

And she shares exciting news about a story that Pink News released and you can find it right here:

The PINK NEWS VIDEO  :)) 

The transman and his Queen is a listener supported podcast. To support our work please consider signing up for Patreon here, buy some fab merch here

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Podcast created and produced by Rowan Brunet and Rovin Media