ATTENTION STEPDADS: If you are struggling with your relationship with your step child, or you have trouble with their dad, you need to read every single word.

Being in a relationship has its own challenges. Add in other people's exes and children and the challenge sometimes feels impossible.

There is no roadmap to being a dad and we all know too well that being a man isn't enough to be called a Dad.

I am not going to reinvent the wheel and learn what it's like to be a dad on my own, so I'm constantly reaching out to other fathers.

However, when I come across a father I'm thinking about connecting with and learning from, I ask myself:

"Are they a good example of the kind of fatherI want to be?"

When it comes to Jason Soto, the answer to that question is an automatic YES.

I invited Jay onto the podcast again because I wanted him to specifically share his experience as a stepdad.

Today you'll find out:

If you have any questions, anything you'd like me to pass on to the dads who've been interviewed, or if you're a dad who would like to be on here, send me an email to [email protected].