You can fake “black cat” energy all you want… but your energy never lies.

If you’ve been trying to master that mysterious, unbothered, magnetic vibe to attract love, while secretly spiraling, overthinking, and checking his online status every five minutes, you’re not alone. I’ve been there.

The truth? 

Acting unbothered without actually feeling secure is just emotional cosplay. It might work at first, but eventually, the cracks show and people can feel the anxious attachment underneath, even if they can’t name it. That’s when the chasing, people-pleasing, and centering men above yourself takes over.

In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m sharing:

🎤 Why fake confidence always sabotages real connection.

🎤 How I went from “cool girl” façade to full-blown anxious chaser (and the heartbreak it brought).

🎤 The exact process I used to heal my anxious attachment and shift into secure, magnetic energy.

🎤 How decentralizing men and making yourself the main character transforms not just your relationships — but your entire life.

We’ll talk about the hidden link between childhood abandonment wounds and adult relationship patterns, why authentic “black cat energy” is a byproduct of deep self-healing, and how to stop chasing approval so you can start attracting the kind of love, purpose, and expansion you actually desire.

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep abandoning yourself in relationships — or how to break the cycle for good — this episode is your permission slip to stop performing, start healing, and become magnetic in a way that’s impossible to fake.

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