This one is for the women who are evolving — loudly, unapologetically, and without explanation.

Kiwanis pulls back the curtain on what it really feels like to grow into the version of yourself you’ve prayed for — the version that no longer shrinks to keep people comfortable.

It’s not a “new year, new me” kind of change. It’s a burn-it-down and rebuild kind of shift. The kind where your patience is low, your standards are higher, and your peace is non-negotiable.

And yes — it might make some people uncomfortable.

But guess what? You’re not changing for them. You’re changing for you. 

What You’ll Hear in This Episode 

🔁 Why the version of you that survived can’t be the one that leads anymore
🚩 Why people get uncomfortable when you stop overgiving and start choosing yourself
🧘🏾‍♀️ How peace, boundaries, and clarity can feel like rebellion (but are actually growth)
🗣️ Why saying no and leaving things on read is part of your healing
💡 A reminder that you're not mean, crazy, or “too much” — you’re just done settling 

Key Quote 

“Some people only liked you when you were overgiving, overexplaining, and always available. I’m not her anymore. I finally chose me.”

Why You’ll Love It
 
This episode is for the version of you that’s shifting in silence, shedding old roles, and choosing not to explain your transformation.

It’s for the girl who feels guilty for needing space — and the woman who’s finally learning not to.

 This is your reminder that becoming her may feel lonely… but you’re not alone.

Episode Resources
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Affirmation to Repeat:

 “I’m not shrinking. I’m not explaining. I’m not going backwards. I’m becoming her.”

Let’s Talk About It
 
Are you in your “I’m done explaining” era too?
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