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Sis, let’s be real… too many of us were raised to believe our worth is tied to how much men desire us. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to shrink yourself, over-give, or obsess over relationships to feel whole.
In this episode, I’m breaking down what it really means to de-center men—and no, it’s not about hating men or choosing to be alone forever. It’s about reclaiming your peace, your power, and your purpose so that love enhances your life, instead of controlling it.
We’ll dive into:
This isn’t about bitterness—it’s about balance. When you learn how to ground your identity in who you are, not who you’re with, you unlock a glow that no man, heartbreak, or relationship status can ever take away.
If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking about men, basing your worth on attention, or forgetting your own dreams while chasing love—this conversation will shift your perspective and set you free.
Perfect for women on their healing journey, faith walk, or glow-up era who want to stop settling, stop overthinking, and start thriving.
Sponsors:
Mindful Vibes 365: Grab your 90-Day Guided Workbook — A Life-Changing Mental & Spiritual Reset(https://mindfulvibes365.com)
Keep in touch with me:
Follow on IG: @_bigbosslay https://www.instagram.com/_bigbosslay/?hl=en& @mindfulvibes.365 (https://www.instagram.com/mindfulvibes.365/?hl=en)
Follow on TikTok: @bigbosslay(https://www.tiktok.com/@bigbosslay & @mindfulvibes365(https://www.tiktok.com/@mindfulvibes365)
By Malaysha LongshoreSis, let’s be real… too many of us were raised to believe our worth is tied to how much men desire us. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to shrink yourself, over-give, or obsess over relationships to feel whole.
In this episode, I’m breaking down what it really means to de-center men—and no, it’s not about hating men or choosing to be alone forever. It’s about reclaiming your peace, your power, and your purpose so that love enhances your life, instead of controlling it.
We’ll dive into:
This isn’t about bitterness—it’s about balance. When you learn how to ground your identity in who you are, not who you’re with, you unlock a glow that no man, heartbreak, or relationship status can ever take away.
If you’ve ever found yourself overthinking about men, basing your worth on attention, or forgetting your own dreams while chasing love—this conversation will shift your perspective and set you free.
Perfect for women on their healing journey, faith walk, or glow-up era who want to stop settling, stop overthinking, and start thriving.
Sponsors:
Mindful Vibes 365: Grab your 90-Day Guided Workbook — A Life-Changing Mental & Spiritual Reset(https://mindfulvibes365.com)
Keep in touch with me:
Follow on IG: @_bigbosslay https://www.instagram.com/_bigbosslay/?hl=en& @mindfulvibes.365 (https://www.instagram.com/mindfulvibes.365/?hl=en)
Follow on TikTok: @bigbosslay(https://www.tiktok.com/@bigbosslay & @mindfulvibes365(https://www.tiktok.com/@mindfulvibes365)