Life is in stages. Same thing with Christian living. You don’t get it right immediately. Trials will come. How you choose to handle it matters. Just like a video game you have to go through the process, you can’t skip it if you want to meet your objectives. God didn’t invent the trials or put you through it, but He has given you every tool you need to overcome it. It just depends on your willingness to do the work. So do the work. Don’t chicken out.