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The Truth About Halloween Candy (and Why Restricting Backfires)
Halloween candy isn’t the villain; fear is. We take a fresh, evidence-based look at sweets through an intuitive eating lens and show how trust—not tight control—leads to calmer kids, steadier routines, and fewer binges for everyone at home. Drawing on research and real client stories, we unpack scarcity mindset, explain why strict sugar rules often backfire, and outline how habituation helps candy lose its charge over time.
We break down Ellen Satter’s Division of Responsibility so parents have a simple, reliable framework: you handle the what, when, and environment; your kids handle whether and how much. From letting children explore their haul and pick favorites to folding a fun-size bar into after‑school snacks and dinners, you’ll hear practical, low‑drama ways to reduce novelty and keep food neutral. We also talk about language that sticks—why swapping “Have you had enough?” for “Which one did you like most?” can shift the whole evening.
Adults get tools too. If you grew up with dessert rules or a clean‑plate culture, Halloween can trigger old scarcity patterns. We share steps to practice unconditional permission to eat, keep meals regular with carbs, protein, and fat, and experiment with keeping candy visible as urges fade. The result is less white‑knuckle control and more body trust, plus a clearer path to stable eating patterns, better emotional well‑being, and a more peaceful home during the sweetest week of the year.
If this conversation helped, tap follow, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find us. What’s the one candy you’ll put on the plate this week?
Ellyn Satter: https://www.ellynsatterinstitute.org/
References
Say A, de la Piedad Garcia X, Mallan KM. The correlation between different operationalisations of parental restrictive feeding practices and children's eating behaviours: Systematic review and meta-analyses. Appetite. 2023 Jan 1;180:106320. doi: 10.1016/j.appet.2022.106320. Epub 2022 Oct 7. PMID: 36210017.
Hübner, H. L., & Bartelmeß, T. (2024). Associations of sugar-related food parenting practices and parental feeding styles with prospective dietary behavior of children and adolescents: A systematic review of the literature from 2017 to 2023. Frontiers in Public Health, 12. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpubh.2024.1382437
Costa A, Oliveira A. Parental Feeding Practices and Children's Eating Behaviours: An Overview of Their Complex Relationship. Healthcare (Basel). 2023 Jan 31;11(3):400. doi: 10.3390/healthcare11030400. PMID: 36766975; PMCID: PMC9914567.
Learn more at behindtheplate.ca
Grab the free Hunger & Fullness Cues Guide: behindtheplate.ca/hunger-fullness-cues
Explore The Empowered Eating Journey: behindtheplate.ca/empowered-eating-journey
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By Heather Soman, RDHalloween candy isn’t the villain; fear is. We take a fresh, evidence-based look at sweets through an intuitive eating lens and show how trust—not tight control—leads to calmer kids, steadier routines, and fewer binges for everyone at home. Drawing on research and real client stories, we unpack scarcity mindset, explain why strict sugar rules often backfire, and outline how habituation helps candy lose its charge over time.
We break down Ellen Satter’s Division of Responsibility so parents have a simple, reliable framework: you handle the what, when, and environment; your kids handle whether and how much. From letting children explore their haul and pick favorites to folding a fun-size bar into after‑school snacks and dinners, you’ll hear practical, low‑drama ways to reduce novelty and keep food neutral. We also talk about language that sticks—why swapping “Have you had enough?” for “Which one did you like most?” can shift the whole evening.
Adults get tools too. If you grew up with dessert rules or a clean‑plate culture, Halloween can trigger old scarcity patterns. We share steps to practice unconditional permission to eat, keep meals regular with carbs, protein, and fat, and experiment with keeping candy visible as urges fade. The result is less white‑knuckle control and more body trust, plus a clearer path to stable eating patterns, better emotional well‑being, and a more peaceful home during the sweetest week of the year.
If this conversation helped, tap follow, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review so more listeners can find us. What’s the one candy you’ll put on the plate this week?
Ellyn Satter: https://www.ellynsatterinstitute.org/
References
Say A, de la Piedad Garcia X, Mallan KM. The correlation between different operationalisations of parental restrictive feeding practices and children's eating behaviours: Systematic review and meta-analyses. Appetite. 2023 Jan 1;180:106320. doi: 10.1016/j.appet.2022.106320. Epub 2022 Oct 7. PMID: 36210017.
Hübner, H. L., & Bartelmeß, T. (2024). Associations of sugar-related food parenting practices and parental feeding styles with prospective dietary behavior of children and adolescents: A systematic review of the literature from 2017 to 2023. Frontiers in Public Health, 12. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpubh.2024.1382437
Costa A, Oliveira A. Parental Feeding Practices and Children's Eating Behaviours: An Overview of Their Complex Relationship. Healthcare (Basel). 2023 Jan 31;11(3):400. doi: 10.3390/healthcare11030400. PMID: 36766975; PMCID: PMC9914567.
Learn more at behindtheplate.ca
Grab the free Hunger & Fullness Cues Guide: behindtheplate.ca/hunger-fullness-cues
Explore The Empowered Eating Journey: behindtheplate.ca/empowered-eating-journey