Ladies and gentlemen, stop receiving or seeking advice and opinions on how you should handle your marriage from single or divorced people who obviously do not have the experience of being able to give adequate advise, unless that person is a Christian and are humble enough to admit what they did wrong so they can tell you what NOT to do.

In the same way as one should never ask someone who lives in an apartment for advice on how to buy a home. Most people that have tons of time giving you advise and opinions is because they are not living out their own life.