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Leadership is everywhere in the corporate world – books, seminars, workshops – but why don't we talk about it at home? That's the question Greg and Jess tackle in this revealing conversation about what leadership actually looks like within a marriage and family.

The truth? Someone is leading in your household right now, whether you've acknowledged it or not. But contrary to what many believe, leadership isn't about being bossy or controlling – it's about trust, direction, and creating an environment where everyone can thrive. As Jess puts it, true leadership makes you think, "I can't help but trust you."

Drawing from their own marriage, Greg and Jess share how they've discovered "lane leadership" – dividing responsibilities according to their natural strengths. Greg handles finances while Jess manages the family calendar and connections with extended family. This division isn't about power but about recognizing who excels where. When Greg sets the emotional tone during difficult conversations and Jess maintains the family's relational connections, they complement rather than compete with each other.

Perhaps most thought-provoking is their discussion of how family attitude reflects leadership quality – echoing the famous line from Remember the Titans: "Attitude reflects leadership, captain." When couples struggle with conflicting leadership approaches, they recommend finding common ground through intentional questions like "What's your biggest concern with my approach?" and remembering you're "all on the same team."

This conversation offers practical wisdom for any relationship struggling with leadership dynamics. As John Maxwell says, "Everything worthwhile is uphill" – and family leadership, while challenging, creates the foundation for your most meaningful relationships. Whether you're part of a blended family, nuclear family, or single-parent household, this episode will transform how you think about leadership at home.