A Vacuum in a person’s life isn’t always a bad thing. We often think of a void or Vacuum as something catastrophic and in disrepair; however, what if we are given a second chance within the cosmos or “Karma Universe” to find happiness or become empowered to be better than our circumstances? We must focus our minds on the positive more than the negative.

Many of us would seek out the commonality upon which we could form a bond or friendship; unfortunately, that was the common denominator. Growing up in an environment that was 90 percent female was tough for a young boy. There were times when we would be all alone in the home with no one to play with us or ask questions relating to our body structure or the psychology of what is acceptable and not acceptable for a boy to do. Many of us would form gangs or “clubs” to help with questions or actions. I can honestly say that many of the conversations were not productive or prudent to our understanding because of the Vacuum of not having a father to mentor and instruct us to become respectable and responsible with our choices.