When was the last time you asked your teenager a question?  I mean a really thoughtful question… then waited for the answer?

 

I’ve found that one of the most important tools in a parent’s toolbox doesn’t cost a thing.  It’s the effort to ask a question and then taking the time to listen for the answer.  When I coach parents in connecting with their teen, I give them three things to think about:

First, ask relevant questions… don’t fake it.

Second, let ‘em think about the answer… don’t supply it.

And third, value their response… don’t correct it.

When you do… you’re communicating that you respect your teen son or daughter.  So, let me ask you again.  When was the last time you asked your teen a really thoughtful question?

 

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