Leveled Up Living

The Version of Me I Had to Outgrow


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Episode Description

In this episode, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about the version of myself I had to outgrow—the one that felt safe, familiar, and socially accepted… but was quietly holding me back.

For a long time, I was the people-pleaser. The party girl. The version of myself who tied her worth to performance, perfection, and how others perceived her. On the outside, it looked like confidence and fun. On the inside, it felt exhausting, limiting, and misaligned.

This episode is an honest reflection on what it cost me to let go of that identity—and what I gained when I finally chose alignment over approval. We talk about people-pleasing, perfectionism, burnout, healing, and the power that comes from becoming loyal to your future self instead of your past.

If you’ve ever felt stuck between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming, this conversation is for you.


In This Episode, We Talk About:

  • The people-pleasing, “party girl” identity and why it felt safe—but limiting

  • How tying self-worth to perfection creates fear, procrastination, and burnout

  • The moment I realized I couldn’t keep living for everyone else

  • What it really cost me to evolve (and why it was worth it)

  • How choosing alignment changed my relationships, mental health, and life trajectory

  • Why outgrowing an identity often opens the door to everything you’ve been calling in

Key Takeaway

Your next level doesn’t require you to become someone new. It requires you to let go of who you’ve already outgrown.


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Leveled Up LivingBy Julia Marie