This Valentine’s Day, we’re serving up two generations of love and one universal truth—marriage is about making it work! Veteran film director Samir Ganguli and his ever-savage wife spill the secrets of their old-school romance, while the Very Parivarik on-screen husband Pranay Pachauri and his real-life wife give us the modern take.

Here’s their take on love, commitment, and why you should just eat the last bite before your partner does.