Can I intimidate a 2yo into giving their toy to my child? Should I? Sharing is not a moral imperative. How can I encourage affectionate play between children without intimidating them? And what can I actually follow through on?

How do I teach my child to be nice and share the toys he has hoarded in a pile in his lap?

What are the acceptable methods of negotiating who’s going to hold that toy?
In this video: to ask, and then be content.

Coming soon in this series on sharing:
Part 2: Learning to be generous.
Part 3: Should I make her share?
Part 4: When my child is the aggressor
Part 5: When my child is the victim

Are boomers rolling their eyes at you? How can the Bible help us find balance?

WHO recommends:

For under 2yo: no screen time (except family video chat)

For 2-4yo: maximum 1hr screen time

How to deal with manipulative meltdowns: https://youtu.be/cF1UvijIyVk

We all know we need boundaries with psychopaths and narcissists. But what about our own children? How young should we be setting boundaries? And what kind of boundaries are appropriate with your own children?

Needing a variety of consequences? https://youtu.be/cF1UvijIyVk

Do naughty kids just need a ‘good spanking’? I don’t recommend corporal punishment to families. I don’t even tell people to smack their kids. But I smack my own kids. How can both those things be true? And is smacking even legal in Australia?

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What does the Bible have to say about the physical discipline of my children? Here are all the verses!

What should I do when I’m short-tempered with my child? What is Biblical gentle parenting?

00:00 One viewer's struggle
00:21 A spiritual battle
05:26 Preventing Grumpiness
09:34 Curing Grumpiness
15:54 Managing the rest of the day
19:08 How to find help
21:50 An encouragement

What happens when the bedtime routine threatens to go off the rails? This is how we settle our children to sleep (even if they're too young to understand me telling them that it's bedtime), how we calm their minds, help them process the day, help them refocus on God and call them to a higher standard tomorrow.

For what I do when my 2yo doesn't want to obey, WATCH: https://youtu.be/cF1UvijIyVk

‘Consequences’ for preschoolers are supposed to be immediate, consistent, loving and non-dramatic. But what does that actually look like? Here are 28 situations from my home and what consequences looked like for each.

What about common objections to smacking: Is it legal? Will I traumatise my child? https://youtu.be/HXaNzkEIG6c

Is smacking really Biblical? https://youtu.be/pB747NCJuVM