People pleasing isn’t just a personality quirk — it’s often a survival strategy your body learned long before you could name it.
In this powerful conversation, Shannon sits down with trauma-informed coach Lyn to explore how chronic self-sacrifice, “good girl” conditioning, and unresolved stress get wired into the nervous system — and what it takes to rewire them.
Lyn’s work was born from personal experience. After losing her mother to the silent toll of self-neglect, she began to see the profound connection between suppressed emotions, chronic stress, and physical health. Now she helps women break free from patterns of over-giving, burnout, and saying “yes” when their whole body is screaming “no.”
Inside the episode:
- The hidden health costs of people pleasing — from anxiety to autoimmune flare-ups
- How trauma imprints in the body and drives chronic over-giving
- Why healing the nervous system is the missing link to lasting change
- Practical ways to start setting boundaries without guilt
- How to reconnect with your own needs, desires, and intuition
- Stories of women who went from depleted and resentful to grounded and self-assured
If you’ve been running on empty, struggling to speak up for yourself, or feeling like you’ve lost touch with who you are, this episode will show you why the answer isn’t pushing harder — it’s coming home to your body and your truth.
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