She Wears the Pants

The Woman Before The Win


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Before the world celebrates you, you have to be willing to see yourself.

In today’s solo episode, Ashley gets raw about the inner identity work that happens long before the spotlight, the seven-figure milestone, or the stage.

With a reality TV debut on the horizon and her voice about to reach audiences around the world, Ashley shares the very real fears of being seen, judged, or misunderstood, and the practices that keep her grounded in who she is before the world tries to define her.

Inside this episode, Ashley shares:

  • Why identity must be anchored before results arrive
  • The difference between shrinking to fit others’ projections and standing firm in self-definition
  • Ashley’s daily rituals for setting identity before emails, meetings, or the world gets access
  • How to recognize the nervous-system panic that comes before expansion, and why it’s often the sign you’re on the right path
  • The role of embodiment, rhythm, and boundaries in holding success at scale
  • A powerful identity anchor exercise you can use today to step into the woman you’re becoming

This is not just about business strategy. It’s about who you must become to hold the success you’re building.

If you are standing on the edge of something big and your hands are shaking, let this be your reminder: the stretch is the birthplace of your next level.

Remember, stay confident, stay focused, and keep wearing those pants with pride.

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She Wears the PantsBy Ashley Deland