Cait Flanders shares the worst questions you could ask your sober friends. Episode 506: The Worst Questions You Could Ask Your Sober Friends by Cait Flanders on Sobriety & Friendships Cait Flanders started her site to document her debt repayment journey. After paying it off, she adopted a minimalist lifestyle, tossed 75% of her stuff, and is currently doing a two-year shopping ban. She shares stories and lessons learned every week. The original post is located here: https://caitflanders.com/2015/04/03/the-worst-questions-you-could-ask-your-sober-friends/Visit Me Online at OLDPodcast.com & in The O.L.D. Facebook Group
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506: The Worst Questions You Could Ask Your Sober Friends by Cait Flanders on Sobriety & Friendships

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Episode 2163:
Jay Harrington's exploration of the crucial role of purpose and minimalism in enhancing life's fulfillment emphasizes the importance of living intentionally. He connects everyday decisions, like decluttering or exercising, to long-term wellness and happiness, underlining how minimalism isn't just about having less but making room for more meaningful engagements.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.becomingminimalist.com/happy-life/
Quotes to ponder:
"The sweat served a higher purpose."
"An intentional life is one marked by long-term thinking that leads to beneficial short-term decision-making."
"Good relationships keep us happier and healthier. Period."
Episode references:
Harvard Study of Adult Development: https://www.adultdevelopmentstudy.org/
"What Makes a Good Life? Lessons from the Longest Study on Happiness": https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8KkKuTCFvzI
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2163: [Part 1] The Single Most Important Factor in Leading a Happy, Fulfilling Life–According to Science by Jay Harrington with Becoming Minimalist

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Episode 2162:
Avery Rogers explores the profound connection between our inner emotions and how we treat others in "Why People Are Rude and Unkind." Unkind behavior often stems from personal struggles rather than malice. This episode delves into why understanding our own insecurities can lead to more compassionate interactions, providing a crucial insight into human behavior and self-perception.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tinybuddha.com/blog/why-people-are-rude-and-unkind-and-why-its-not-about-you/
Quotes to ponder:
"How people treat other people is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves."
"When someone is rude for no reason, especially a stranger, it’s rarely a personal assault, even if you accidentally did something to irritate them."
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2162: Why People Are Rude and Unkind (and Why It’s Not About You) by Avery Rogers with Tiny Buddha

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Episode 2161:
Dive into the heartwarming message of shared joy as presented by Ryan Frederick in "Joy is Best Shared." The article reflects on a captivating story of three elder women who rediscover the thrills of youth through a spontaneous sledding adventure, reminding us that joy, especially when shared with lifelong friends, knows no age.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.here.life/blog/joy-is-best-shared
Quotes to ponder:
"Joy can be a singular experience. Soaking in a sunrise. Hiking to the top of a mountain. Observing wildlife. But joy is best shared."
"These women are good friends, likely long-time friends, as they seem content to just be with each other. No need for words."
"When their ride concludes, the flashback ends but the joy remains. In fact, there is a deeper sense of joy as the friends revel in their shared experience past and present."
Episode references:
The Power of Now: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Now-Guide-Spiritual-Enlightenment/dp/1577314808
Live Closer to Your Friends - The Atlantic: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2023/03/neighbors-friendship-happiness/673352/
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2161: Joy is Best Shared by Ryan Frederick of Here.life on Friendships & Relationships

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Episode 2160:
Explore the profound lessons in Sam's article on why prioritizing your career over personal relationships can lead to regret. Discover the story of Lana, who achieved immense financial success but missed out on decades of potential love and companionship. Learn why balancing love and career is essential for a fulfilling life.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.financialsamurai.com/you-will-regret-sacrificing-love-for-money-almost-all-of-the-time/
Quotes to ponder:
“But you will always regret sacrificing love for money."
"I would have absolutely focused as hard on my love life as I did on my career."
"I would absolutely trade all my wealth to have my family."
Episode references:
Columbia University: https://www.columbia.edu/
Dartmouth College Tuck School of Business: https://www.tuck.dartmouth.edu/
Whistler Blackcomb: https://www.whistlerblackcomb.com/
Swiss Alps: https://www.myswitzerland.com/en/
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2160: You Will Always Regret Sacrificing Love For Money by Sam of Financial Samurai on Personal Finances & Marriage

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Episode 2159:
Explore the depths of a lasting marriage with Dr. Donna Rockwell's insights on creating a mindful union. Discover effective strategies to nurture and maintain the vibrancy of your marital relationship, transcending the commonplace challenges with wisdom and patience.
Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.psychalive.org/as-long-as-we-both-shall-live-creating-a-mindful-marriage/
Quotes to ponder:
"Staying present and patient through each other’s growth spurts and dips, successes and pitiful crashes, shining moments and monumental mistakes is what love is all about."
"Love is experienced, in the moment, as a spontaneous opening of the heart."
"Anger passes, like clouds in the sky, so rather than indulging its allure, we can simply watch it pass by instead, like a cloud."
Episode references:
Jewel Heart: https://www.jewelheart.org/
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506: The Worst Questions You Could Ask Your Sober Friends by Cait Flanders on Sobriety & Friendships

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