There are three types of love that we must avoid and walk away from. Practising the right type of love starts with being a giver. Always think away from yourself towards the needs of others and practice giving advise, help, care, aid and anything that draws attention away from yourself to other members of your society. Self love that focuses only on self and not on others is one wrong type. Lack of natural affection or being perverted is another one. Love of pleasure more than loving God is also in the list of the wrong types of love.