I Will Know You

The Year I Finally Lived: 5 Lessons That Changed Me


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What if the hardest year of your life is also the most expansive?
I’m closing the year by sharing five lessons that reshaped everything. How I held grief without labeling it failure, learned the difference between solitude and loneliness, redefined love far beyond romance, healed my nervous system to build real safety, and used travel as integration instead of escape.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why grief showed up in joyful moments and how that became proof that I loved deeply
 • The shift from “I’m alone” to “I’m with myself,” and what solitude taught me about self-trust
• Redefining love through friendship, community, and a wildly affirming Galentine’s
• How the love I thought I lost didn’t disappear, it expanded
• Nervous system healing in real life: therapy, breathwork, movement, sleep, and honest self-audits
• Weaning off anxiety medication with medical support, feeling more, and coping better
• Building internal safety and how that unlocked solo travel and expansion
• Doing the things I always said I wanted to do… and finally doing them

Across the high highs and low lows, the throughline is acceptance: all feelings are temporary, and growth happens when we stop outrunning them. This episode is an invitation to reflect on what this year revealed about you—what you’re carrying forward, and what you’re ready to leave behind.

If you’ve been craving reflection, expansion, or permission to meet new parts of yourself, this one’s for you.

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I Will Know YouBy Arlyne Solis