In this episode of Super Wife: Being Perfectly Imperfect, Cierra J. breaks down the truth that being a wife isn’t something you “turn on” when the title comes—it’s a posture, a mindset, a way of life.

You don’t become a wife the moment you say “I do.” You’ve been becoming her through your habits, your healing, your growth, and your heart work.

Cierra J. challenges the idea that wifehood is a role you step into only when a man arrives. Instead, she invites you to live with intention, integrity, and love that naturally exudes the identity of a wife—even while single.

There’s no switch to flip—because if it’s truly in you, it shows up in everything you do.