Ladies let safe ourself stress and disrespect most of the time . Let’s stop enabling these men to disrespect just when they do please . If someone invites you on a date and you’re not comfortable, you could politely say so or suggest that you come with a friend . One friend is okay not 5, not 7 nor 10 please . If I’m to be the guy I will only pay for my meal and go home walai 🤦🏽‍♀️. And never forget to always carry your vex money cause this one right here will majorly safe you that stress and disrespect because , if the guy decides to not to pay as he did not invite you and your friends on a date then, you safe yourself by paying for the bills of you and your friends and next time when someone one asks you out on a date and it does not sit well with you due to the insecurity in the country , you could suggest you come with your fiend or politely say no or reschedule to when you’ll be comfortable .