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Hi, frahnd!
This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.
Today we’re finishing out the season by diving head first into Mommy and/or Daddy Issues. We’ll talk a bit about our lore, those childhood experiences that shaped who we are now, how those old wounds sneak into our adult lives, and what healing looks like especially when our parents are still, um… a lot.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We know these conversations can be tough, but they’re so necessary. What are your thoughts on today’s topic? How are you navigating your relationship with your parents? Share your stories with us on Instagram or YouTube!
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See y'all in our Patreon OR next season if you can bear to leave us for that long. We hope to enjoy your presence in our FREE Patreon chat for all subscribers (and yes, that includes unpaid members). 👋🏼👋🏼
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Hi, frahnd!
This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.
Today we’re diving deep into the beautiful chaos of parenting, particularly that sweet spot where we try to gently parent our kids while also reparenting ourselves. The truth is that healing your inner child is already a crap ton of work, but it's a special flavor of fun when you have your own kids.
Joining us in the studio for this fun convo is our bestie and inner glow-up queen, Ursula Rodriguez, owner of Soleil Vida Studio! Through Soleil Vida, Ursula leads the community in conversation around healing your inner child or mija.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're honoring your inner child while raising your own! Share your thoughts and frustrations with us on Instagram or YouTube!
ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈
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Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly, and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
See y'all in the last episode of Season 2: Struggling w/Daddy&Mommy Issues! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼
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🤩Today's Guest
Ursula: @soleilvidastudio; Soleil Vida Store; soleilvidastudio.com; Faire Whole Sale; "Inner Mija Circle" Server on Discord.
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La La Land Kind Cafe lalalandkindcafe.com/
Ruby: holarubygomez ; itsrubycreative
Tlazo Home: tlazo_home; tlazohome.com/
Hi, frahnd!
This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.
'Tis the season, and today we’re talking about dating when you’re in a committed partnership. We obvi don't mean sneaky links or affairs, but intentionally dating your spouse. AND we’re not doing it alone! Joining us today is newly married Marilú Medina, a Dallas-based makeup artist and lifestyle influencer, who’s here to share her perspective on love and intentional dating.
Staying intentional, romantic, and connected with your significant other when you’ve been together for years is… not easy. If you're trying to juggle pouring into your person while life throws bills, work stress, and emotional baggage your way, this episode is for you.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're balancing work, family, and other responsibilities along with your social life! Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube!
ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈
Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!
Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
We hope you have an amazing holiday season surrounded by those you love! We'll see y'all in the n ew year for the next episode: Struggling w/Parenting! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼
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🤩Today's Guest
Marilu: @mariluxmedinaa
Hi, frahnd!
This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.
Today we’re talking about On today’s episode we’re talking about dating in 2025, because dating out here is ROUGH. SWe brought in Dr. Jessica Sanchez, licensed sex therapist and pleasure advocate to help us understand and give us the real tea on modern dating!
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're handling dating in this modern era! Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube!
ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈
Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!
Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
See y'all in the next episode: Struggling w/Dating: Life Partner Edition! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼
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🤩Today's Guest
Dr. Sanchez: @latinasexologist; www.drjsanchez.com
💖Mentioned this Episode:
Les Portes de Bordeaux Sauvignon Blanc: Vivino, Reverse Wine Snob, Refinery29
Señora Sex Ed Podcast: iHeart Radio, Apple Podcast, Spotify
Hi, frahnd!
This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.
Today’s episode is all about surviving the messy culture of corporate life and we invited our new frahnd, Ruby Gomez to help us spill some tea and clock bad behavior!! We’re talking drama, backstabbing, the toxicity that follows us even after we escape those circumstances, and we’re sharing the work we’ve had to do to leave the baggage behind.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Have you dealt with corporate backstabbing? Share your thoughts or horror stories with us on Instagram or YouTube!
ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈
Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!
Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
See y'all in the next episode: Struggling w/Dating: Singles Edition! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼
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🤩Today's Guest
Ruby: holarubygomez ; itsrubycreative
Hi, frahnd!
This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.
Today we’re getting real about something that so many of us are unlearning: the influence of the male gaze and how it’s shaped the way we show up in the world. From how we dress, to how we act, to what we post online. It's time to talk about the quiet pressure of being “watchable,” “pleasing,” or “desirable”… and how exhausting that can be.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? How has the male gaze influenced your life and actions? Share your thoughts with us on Instagram or YouTube!
ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈
Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!
Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly, and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
See y'all in the next episode: Struggling w/Corporate Backstabbing! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼
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💖Mentioned this Episode:
Dark Asia with Megan | Beauty and the Beasts
Hi, frahnd!
This season, we sharing how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.Today, we’re diving into something we’ve both been feeling lately…finding energy for a social life. Why is it so hard to make plans, go out, or even want to be social these days? And when we do, what can we do that doesn’t revolve around alcohol or loud bars? If you ever cancelled plans just to recharge or wondered how to stay connected without burning out or breaking your wellness goals, this episode is for you.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? We'd love to hear how you're balancing work, family, and other responsibilities along with your social life! Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube!
ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈
Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!
Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
See y'all in the next episode: Struggling with Social Lives! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼
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💖Mentioned this Episode
Ursula: @soleilvidastudio;
Hola Luz Creative: @holaluzcreative
Brittney Vaughn: @BrittneyVaughn
OMG Hello again, frahnd! Welcome back to Thirty, Flirty & Trying!
This season, the struggle continues. Relationships, whether platonic, romantic, familial, or otherwise, take time and patience to cultivate and, honestly, ain’t nobody got time for that😔 Tbh, our social lives feel out of control and on the decline. Juggling time to love on our friends, partners, and family feels overwhelming and almost impossible in a culture that requires us to overwork ourselves. So in season 2, we share how we’ve been struggling with others, the ways its been affecting us, and the small things we’re doing to change our outlooks on our situations and take back the reigns of our social lives.
We’re starting with the growing pains of friendship. Whether you’re trying to make it work with your day-ones, growing closer with besties or growing apart, this episode is for you. Pull up a chair, grab your wine or cafecito, and lets talk about things we should be saving for our therapists.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Friendships are so complex, and the world isn't black or white, so we're interested to hear how you've dealt with similar situations before and what you think about it now that you've had time to reflect. Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram or YouTube!
ORRRRR you could join our members exclusive chat on Patreon😈
Patreon subscribers not only get an exclusive chat to yap with us about the episodes, but they also receive exclusive early access to the video episode! Videos are released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs, but you can catch this episode’s video NOW on our Patreon!
Not to mention the snail mail, exclusive wallpapers hand-drawn by yours truly (AI could neverrrrr), and so many more perks! Even free members get perks not available anywhere else, like BTS blog posts and an opportunity to submit questions to our upcoming mini series, “Ask-a-Frahnd!”
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
See y'all in the next episode: Struggling with Social Lives! TTYL👋🏼👋🏼
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Hi Frahnd!! On the last episode of the season, Struggling with Sensuality, we talk about the demonization of women’s sensuality, the uncomfortable adult lens that grown ups project onto women as children, and how we’re healing these wounds to finally have mental autonomy over our bodies again. .
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? Have you been personally victimized by others for your sensuality? Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube!
Thirty Flirty Socials:
IG: @flirtythirtytryingandpodcast
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TikTok: @wholisticallynoelly
Chris' Socials:
IG: @chrisandthecity_ ; @chrisandthehobbies
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Here are the names of the websites we discussed for female pleasure (we didn't put the link to the actual sites because duh.):
Please Note that based on your states' laws, you might not be able to enjoy the content of Bellesa without a subscription (Texas, we're looking at you.)
The book Chris mentioned is Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. You can purchase the book here through Rep.Club, a Black-owned, Woman-owned concept bookshop & creative space in Los Angeles, CA.
Full episodes will be released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs (Catch us posting the videos on time next season- Oops!). @ThirtyFlirtyandTryingPodcast
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
Thank y'all SO FREAKING MUCH for listening through Season 1: Struggling w/Yourself. Make sure you subscribe so you don't miss out on Season 2: Struggling w/Others, coming y'all's way Fall of 2025, & add us on socials so we can stay connected until then<3
See y'all in the next season! TTYL Frahnd <3
TRIGGER WARNING: Hi Frahnd! This episode covers a few different heavy topics, including the recent election, religious trauma, r@cial inequality, and child ab*se. If this is not the episode for you, or today is not a good day to hear about this stuff, please take care of yourself; catch us in the next one bb, no stress<3
On today’s episode, we talk about our tumultuous spiritual journeys, the reasons why so many millennials are detached from mainstream religion, and discuss benefits of different types of spiritual practices.
What are your thoughts on today’s convo? How has your spiritual or religious journey evolved throughout your life? Share your thoughts and struggles with us on Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube!
Thirty Flirty Socials:
IG: @flirtythirtytryingandpodcast
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Noelly's Socials:
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TikTok: @wholisticallynoelly
Chris' Socials:
IG: @chrisandthecity_ ; @chrisandthehobbies ; @cmdc.tx
TikTok: @chris.andthecity
Full episodes will be released on Youtube the week after the podcast airs (Catch us posting the videos on time next season- Oops!). @ThirtyFlirtyandTryingPodcast
Thirty, Flirty, & Trying is an individually produced podcast, so if you love this episode, please leave us a review! Your engagement means the word to us and makes a huge difference on the success of this show. Just remember to be kind please cause we’re sensy.
Thank y'all once more for being patient and still listening even though the sound is not at its best quality yet. The growing pains are real, but we're having a great time learning.
See y'all in the next episode: Struggling with Sensuality! TTYL <3
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